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AIBU to leave an 8 week old to cry?!

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DONTPICKTHEMILKSPOTS · 18/02/2019 22:14

I've been rocking him in a swing chair on and off since 7pm. Not to mention the hellish day.

I only breed arsehole children that don't sleep. Though I love them very very much.

I've tried countless things.
White noise
Black out blinds
Routines (I paid £34 for one!)
Something that smells like me
Various swing chairs
Rocking chair
Patting
Shush and pat
Etc etc etc etc

Now he's ridiculously over tired and I'm ridiculously pissed off.
My first child was the same.

The ONLY way he sleeps is in the car.

It's not sustainable to do every nap and bed time in the car.

He's next to me screaming.

I'm not asking for suggestions.
Believe me, I've tried it.

OP posts:
greathat · 19/02/2019 14:40

Do you breastfeed? My daughter made it to 6 weeks exclusive bfeeding and didn't sleep at all. I was properly losing the plot. A health visitor came, watched me feed for fourtt minutes then took her and put her down for a sleep that lasted all of 30 seconds. She then suggested a bottle to rule out her being hungry. She drank an entire bottle. From then on I mix fed and the sleep improved. Been there and you have my sympathy

greathat · 19/02/2019 14:41

Ah just read a bit further about supply. Ignore that clearly not relevant

justrestinginmybankaccount · 19/02/2019 14:46

Awww op! FlowersCakeBrew
Get some time to yourself now!!!
My first child also needed THE CAR many time in the middle of the night - that’s when you get your husband to help.
It’ll get better.
Do walk away when you need to.
Do stop and look at his gorgeous little face.
The bfing will get better as he gets bigger - you are right.
You’re doing great.
Best of luck xxx

Absofrigginlootly · 19/02/2019 20:56

Completely and utterly randomly one of my old desperate threads popped up on the board tonight?!

Anyway OP maybe some of he advice might help you too...!!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2264223-8-week-old-DD-wont-sleep-Feeling-desperate

Honestly, it does get better!!!!

RabbityMcRabbit · 19/02/2019 21:09

Mine used to love a vibrating chair/rocker thingie

Cheby · 19/02/2019 22:49

How has this evening been so far OP? Hope you’re getting some sleep.

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