Trigger warning **Title edited by MNHQ** AIBU-partner watching incest porn

[Messymumof3]

found our this evening that my partner has been watching mother and son porn - he says it has been going on for a few months. If makes me feel physically sick. a part of me feels that it's just fantasy and that it doesn't mean anything but another part of me just wants him to just leave . I'm disgusted that he could even watch it . I'm so upset /sick but it sure if I'm over reacting and that it was just porn .

I should add that we have children together . Preschool age

YANBU! Btw 'just porn'?

That actually makes me feel sick . Awful. Would be a LTB from me.

What's LTB mean wittank?

Revolting.
I couldn't stay with someone like that.

That's a difficult one. I even if he stops watching it the damage is done to your relationship?

It doesn't matter what other people think about you over reacting. What do you think? Do you want to break up?

Gross. He needs to get help.

Sorry, is mumsnet speak -short for 'leave the bastard'. So sorry op, horrible predicament.b

I know "just porn". I feel like im trying to make a lesser deal out of it even though I'm disgusted

Leave The Bastard.
LBT.

We've been together for 12 years and he honestly a great husband and dad and now this has come up and I feel like I can't speak to any friends/family about it .

Sorry op I've assumed you meant mother adult son incest. You're not talking about him watching child porn are you?

The videos he's watched haven't got any children in them (not that it makes it any better )

Instasista--no children no .

I presume OP means adult incest porn and not child (age) abuse. It just turns my stomach and I know I just couldn’t look at him the same way however much it is "just" fantasy.

How will you react when you next meet his mother.

Just to clarify that there and no children involved and in the porn they aren't actually related -just really awful acting - again I know that doesn't make a difference. I'm just trying to wrap my head around why he would even watch or contemplate watching this kind of porn .

Please get rid of him, that's not normal

Blimey OP on the contrary that makes it much better! Not good but you know...better than child porn

Don't make any rash decisions. It must've been an awful
Shock

Djbaggy I know . I don't even want him around our children at the moment

I know it's not real, but the scenario obviously turns him on which would disturb me. Even if he doesn't intend to act on it. It's just bloody disgusting isn't it.

Thank you insta. This has come out of no where. I just don't know where to go from here . I did stay calm and talk to him . He said that it wasn't the storyline of the infest that turned him on just the actual porn but why keep on watching it then when there is so much other porn out there .

If you look at the romance books on Kindle, you'll find tons of incest stories. I've no idea why anyone would want to read them or watch crappy actors acting them out.

It would be a dumping offence for me.

Well this has certainly taken my mind off all the terror attack threads