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To think that when you're using play equipment in the park it's rude for parents to stand next to you waiting for you to finish

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Qedwai · 13/08/2016 00:04

I'm wondering if I'm the only one who hates this or if I'm being unreasonable.

When I'm in the park with my Sons and we want to go on something we play on something else until it's free and then quickly go on it once it becomes available. We don't stand right next to the parent and child waiting for them to get off! If we know something is really popular we will only stay on 5 mins so that everyone gets a chance to play.

One thing I've noticed consistently, is that there are a small number of parents who will stand right next to you with their child, literally waiting for you to get off the equipment. In the process, making you feel rushed and uncomfortable. Especially if they make a big deal of the fact they are waiting by saying stuff like 'won't be long now and you can go on once this boy has got off'.

Today I was in a large, fairly busy park and I put my Son in the swing. I had only just put him in when a woman went right behind me and said to her daughter 'we will go on once this boy has finished' she then proceeded to stand still, right next to me, with a grumpy face until we took our Son out of the swing'.

It's something I would never ever do. I think it's rude and unnecessary. Standing nearby is different but right next to the person is rude.

If a park is so busy it's necessary to queue for things I suppose that's different, but i'm not talking about parks like that. Just normal parks.

I know I probably am being a bit unreasonable but it's happened a few times now, and it's really getting on my nerves.

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klmnop · 15/08/2016 23:29

Oh my word is this still going?

Rockingaround · 15/08/2016 23:44

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chancesareabadthing · 16/08/2016 00:17

To fanjo, the grain of sand thing was meant to mock pearlman's username, as in pearls develop from a grain of sand but Pearlman clearly didn't develop from sand into a pearl, so that grain of sand would have been better washed ashore. Stupidly cryptic of me.
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DixieNormas · 16/08/2016 00:28

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 16/08/2016 00:31

Chancesare ah you were too intelligent for me GrinFlowers

GiddyOnZackHunt · 16/08/2016 00:32

Still says ' at poster's request'...

chancesareabadthing · 16/08/2016 00:50

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