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To think that when you're using play equipment in the park it's rude for parents to stand next to you waiting for you to finish

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Qedwai · 13/08/2016 00:04

I'm wondering if I'm the only one who hates this or if I'm being unreasonable.

When I'm in the park with my Sons and we want to go on something we play on something else until it's free and then quickly go on it once it becomes available. We don't stand right next to the parent and child waiting for them to get off! If we know something is really popular we will only stay on 5 mins so that everyone gets a chance to play.

One thing I've noticed consistently, is that there are a small number of parents who will stand right next to you with their child, literally waiting for you to get off the equipment. In the process, making you feel rushed and uncomfortable. Especially if they make a big deal of the fact they are waiting by saying stuff like 'won't be long now and you can go on once this boy has got off'.

Today I was in a large, fairly busy park and I put my Son in the swing. I had only just put him in when a woman went right behind me and said to her daughter 'we will go on once this boy has finished' she then proceeded to stand still, right next to me, with a grumpy face until we took our Son out of the swing'.

It's something I would never ever do. I think it's rude and unnecessary. Standing nearby is different but right next to the person is rude.

If a park is so busy it's necessary to queue for things I suppose that's different, but i'm not talking about parks like that. Just normal parks.

I know I probably am being a bit unreasonable but it's happened a few times now, and it's really getting on my nerves.

FlissMumsnet · 13/08/2016 22:38

Excuse us interrupting the thread Blush, just want to make a plea for kindness and support . It is the weekend afterall....Wine

KateSMumsnet · 14/08/2016 21:09

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RebeccaMumsnet · 15/08/2016 17:06

Hi all,

Generally in cases such as this we do say TSSDNCOP as this poster is not around to defend herself and it's not cricket to discuss folks when they cannot reply.

There does seem to have been a mistake made here by the community team that I will get to the bottom of.

Pearlman did break our Talk guidelines but there has since been a mass removal of her posts that have been replaced with a 'withdrawn' message.

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