To be mad at my asshole boyfriend

[Whatthecrocodilehat]

Been really busy today with poorly baby.
My BF has been texting me and my answers have been short as I have been quite stressed cleaning up projectile vomit all day and doing a trip to hospital.
Basically I didn't ask BF about how his day was and how he is.
When he mentioned that, I said sorry and asked him how he was.
He then goes on to tell me that he had fallen off the roof at work, broken his wrist and gouged his leg down the bone. When I phoned him in a panic he didn't answer so I text him again to ask what the doctors have said.
He said that they said that his misses should always ask how he is so he doesn't need to make up stupid stories.

AIBU to be fucking livid and go over to his and give him a fucking kick in the nuts?!

Wow. You had a baby with this twat??

YANBU to be fucking livid. YABVVU to consider having anything more to do with him. What an utter arsehole.

He's not my DD's father. It's so out of character for him that's what pissed me off the most!

YANBU at all. Y maybe BU to force him onto a roof, break his wrist and gouge his leg though. And I'm not 100% on that maybe...

He is a self centred wanker.

What a prick

And his redeeming features?

He's Just texted saying sorry but then made a joke about how convincing he was. I can't even reply I'm so mad.

Red flag alert !
This guy is semaphoring " I am a controlling wanker" at you as obviously as as he can
Pay attention !

Dump and block. You have a sick child, and a sick boyfriend. Different types of sick though.

I think I'm going to just ignore till the morning. I don't have the longest fuse in the world and don't need an argument ontop of everything else!

Another vote for getting rid.

Right so he knows you have a sick baby and have been at hospital with her yet still decides he is more important and should have your undivided attention? He doesnt, so he punishes you for it by creating massive panic and lying about a serious injury?

And yet you havent referred to him as ex boyfriend or newly dumped boyfriend? Odd.

Text him saying how sorry you are and you'll make it up to him later. Follow it up with a joke about how convincing you are and actually he can fuck off.

This is not a good man. If you don't feel quite ready to LTB yet (which you absolutely should) let this be a warning
He will get worse.

I'd be livid at that!

so, he's jealous of a baby and needs to seek attention to get back to Top Dog Position?

good luck with that

Sounds like a real catch. This particular catch is best dropped.

Ugh. You don't need this and your child definitely doesn't need this.

What a plank.

So either he asked about your day, knew about the baby then threw a tantrum because it slipped your mind to immediately ask back about his day or he didn't ask about your day but then threw a fit when you didn't ask about his either...

I can't decide which is worse. He definitely needs to get his act together. If this man is going to stay in your life he needs to care about the baby as well. If he doesn't then he needs to go, now.

Congratulations on your babies.

He's a fuckwit tell him to jog on