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to think the "A day in the life: Mrs Meldrum" video bear no semblance on reality?

216 replies

00100001 · 23/11/2015 07:16

Has anyone watched this?

basically it goes - Morning! here's some BASSSETT'S MULTI VITAMINS.... look how my children never squabble. They play nicely and share with each other and other kids. They don't smoosh chocolate cake all over their pretty dresses. We all go for wholesome walks by the river without getting a spot of mud on us. And look, they go to bed without a fuss too (after arriving home at approximately 7.02pm Grin)

Now, who recognises that as a typical day with two under fours???

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DyslexicScientist · 08/12/2015 12:45

Just happened to google myself , yeah right.

Her blog and mumsnet hardly gets any views. Don't put yourself out there if you only want positivity, this is the internet.

ninared · 08/12/2015 12:57

Yougottakeepem yep exactly

this has worked just as hoped by the PR machine running this show (look at who is behind Channel Mums and you'll work out pretty quickly that all this is a highly tuned PR exercise to gain exposure and in turn clients ) - in a so called 'crisis' like this followers defend and comment on all social media outlets and sites such as this one and interact which means more reach via the social media algorithms and more traction on all of Brand Meldrum

because of this thread and the corresponding facebook and youtube 'warts and all' vlog today all interaction is hugely increased - just look at the massive increase in comments on her youtube channels and Instagram and the Facebook page of mrs m which is what was hoped for which all means it's working well to gain publicity and more ROI for the brands involved.

it's no accident that there is also a competition running at the moment which went live just before this all kicked off

also note the staged 'shit bits' vlog today right on the heels of this thread - we suddenly see the bottles in the utility room, the supposed no make up (look closely and you'll see there is make up) and the low key housework normal day after the last lot of seriously curated perfect Christmas happy sparkly videos

All following the formatted Mummy Tuber PR script /campaign to gain more views and subscribers quite nicely thank you very much

thunderbird69 · 08/12/2015 13:32

OP can you explain your joke?

I've never heard of this woman. First thought it was a typo of Meldrew ( i.e Victor).

I agree that if you're putting out YouTube videos of yourself and family you've got to take any feedback on the chin. Although I can't tell from the posts on here if she has been upset by it or turned it into an opportunity?

LittlestLightOnTheTree · 08/12/2015 13:33

Well nobody had mentioned her Facebook or Instagram till you did just now..... Almost as if you are promoting it for her

00100001 · 08/12/2015 13:37

Oh, see if I have to explain it... Its not funny Grin

It was my ever so witty observation of "we arrived home at approximately 7.02pm" which is a rather precise time to arrive somewhere... And therefore, me pointing it out just- Oh look! Tumble weed

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whopureedmypeas · 08/12/2015 13:45

Oh sorry but what a drama lama!

I googled her name after reading this thread - and this thread did not come up when I searched at all!

She states that there are "sooo many threads" on here about her and giving her abuse Shock well that is simply not true! I have only ever come across this thread and I certainly wouldn't say its abusive in fact I'd say compared to many threads I've seen on AIBU it's pretty tame.

I've seen her videos before after watching the bassetts one on here, and this new video showed washing piled up, giving her kids beans with no toast and her youngest screaming at her feet...it is so obviously different to the other videos where her children have eaten beautifully crafted prawns with chilli, her kitchen is immaculate as "she does it as she goes along" and the children sit nicely at the table, it's almost laughable. The video comes across a bit odd and too defensive tbh and I don't think she's done herself any favours calling mumsnetters trolls.

Seems like a nice sweet wee girl but best to stop putting your life laid bare on t'internet if you're going to cry everytime someone disagrees with you.
And as for some of the comments about mumsnetters underneath the video....
Yes huns we're all bitter and jealous Hmm

stopfuckingshoutingatme · 08/12/2015 13:56

Katie&Baby 1 hour ago. They are so jelous hun dont listen to anyone! We should never have to prove ourselves! Love uu xxxx

a sage and wise woman! clearly

LittlestLightOnTheTree · 08/12/2015 13:57

A few videos back she referred to her own troll... Irishmammy

Then I just read a thread here on MN where they refer to a mner/troll also called irishmammy. Is it the same one? I vaguely recall her name, but I e lived through so many trolls here I can't quite place her!

GeordieBadger · 08/12/2015 14:02

(look closely and you'll see there is make up)

I saw eyeliner for sure.

ilovetoski · 08/12/2015 14:09

(look closely and you'll see there is make up)

Thats hilarious, she actually says in the vlog thats she's wearing tinted moisturiser !!! Oh no, what a crime !

Still haven't seen her crying though, can anyone point me in the direction of get crying video ????

whopureedmypeas · 08/12/2015 14:15

4 hours ago Ahh I love that this was a massive finger to those bitches on the forum!! Haha

Another well thought out articulate post there from a Mrs Meldrum fan there.
Some of the comments underneath that video are utterly vitrolic compared to the posts on this thread which for the most part have been pretty reasonable.

00100001 · 08/12/2015 14:21

Leave her fans alone people. They're entitled to their opinions, just as we are. Xmas Smile

No need to have a cross-site argument about the marvellous BASSET'S MULTIVITAMINS! Xmas Grin

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LittlestLightOnTheTree · 08/12/2015 14:24

After all this I've still no idea about the BASSETS multivitamins anyway! Are they for kids or adults? The advertising hasn't worked on me I'm afraid

whopureedmypeas · 08/12/2015 14:31

Fair enough Op I was just a bit Shock and Hmm at the comments (and the irony of them)
BASSETS multivitamins are for kids! Chewy ones for older kids, liquid for babies. I couldn't get a chewy vitamin down mine even if I tried to pretend they were sweeties and I have

jorahmormont · 08/12/2015 14:45

Oh I quite like Mrs Meldrum.

Then again I'm also a blogger and therefore The Scum Of The Earth so disregard my opinion entirely Grin

It is very much a Pinterest-perfect, ideal life kind of blog/vlog that she has, but sometimes I like watching that kind of thing. Then I get back to writing my own blog about how DD's latest habit is trying to break the world speed record for getting herself naked wherever she is, be that in bed or at the shops.

ExasperatedAlmostAlways · 08/12/2015 15:00

I just went and watched her vlog about here. She never said she'd cried at all op. So don't let the guilt get to you too much Wink

00100001 · 08/12/2015 15:12

jorah go away, you're Scum Of The Earth your opinion shall be instantly disregarded Xmas Grin

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Rightyhothen · 08/12/2015 16:14

Nah, tbh I didn't think she looked that bothered about it all.

She did say a couple of times that she didn't want to make anyone feel bad about their lives by portraying hers as perfect, hence her latest vlog. I didn't hear her mention the word troll.

Anyways, OP I thought your joke was HILARIOUS.

(Totally missed it )

EddieStobbart · 08/12/2015 16:42

Well, I'd never heard of Mrs Meldrum before today so whether it was deliberate or not, it has raised her profile by one.

I won't be looking though, I'm not comfortable with the idea of exposing childens lives like this. This could be very unfair of me as without looking I have no idea how it is structured but Supernanny always made me wince for this reason. How can the children consent and what happens when they get to school - how do their peers react?

I could be out of touch and OTT about this though - I'm not even on Facebook.

BuffyTheSpikeLayer · 08/12/2015 16:54

I think this has all been blown massively out of proportion the OP only made a tongue in cheek observation about the bassets video!

Someone apparently linked this thread to her facebook page - the comments about the posters on here and on Mumsnet in general are awful, far worse than what has been said about her vlogs.

I'm sorry this thread upset Mrs Meldrum or that she found it abusive I am sure it was never the intention but all this cross site tit for tat has got a bit out of hand for me.

Lets all just get along shall we Grin season of goodwill and all that!

00100001 · 08/12/2015 16:55

you forgot your santa hat buffy

Xmas Grin
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BuffyTheSpikeLayer · 08/12/2015 17:04

So I did! Here have some more Xmas Smile Xmas Smile

Oh and ignore me someone didn't link it to her page apparently she did that herself so apologies! And anyway my olive branch stands... or should it be mistletoe? Or is too soon for exchanging kisses?
Anyway Mrs Meldrum if your reading have a Wine and Cake from me we're a nice bunch really!

Rightyhothen · 08/12/2015 17:18

Ah didn't see the Facebook page before my last post.

Oh dear, blown out of all proportion doesn't even cut it. This thread is in no way the evil bitchfest it's made out to be by some of her subscribers. I wonder if some have even read it fully without the haze of indignation clouding their judgement. Sad

It's a shame that the self deprecating aspect of my post was missed AND the fact that I said I liked her.

Ah well, Merry Christmas Mrs Meldrum have some Flowers and Cake

00100001 · 08/12/2015 17:31

Feel free to buy people "Binary's Funny Book of Ever So Witty Jokes (featuring the 7.02 joke of MN)"

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Rightyhothen · 08/12/2015 17:38

Ooo, just in time for Xmas? Good marketing there binary. Will be a great stocking filler.

Judging by the esteemed 7.02 joke I'm sure it will be a hoot a minute. Xmas Grin