Has anyone's dh done less than mine today?? surely not

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Today he has, dug potatoes and carrots for 5 people out of the garden, washed peeled and chopped them (for tomorrows tea), been to visit his mother, cooked tonight's tea and washed up (I prepared it) and will walk the dog at 9 tonight

Actually, writing it down it looks ok, but he will have spent about 7 hours watching tv by the time he goes to bed tonight, that's what pisses me off

AIBU?

Was there anything else that needed doing that he left you to do? What's wrong with a day of rest?

Mine has accompanied 3 yr old DD for a poo. Oh, and he made a sandwich.

Looking at it again that's more than I do most Sundays...

And what's wrong with that?

Ive done waaay less what the problem? Its Sunday.

that's loads

what else did you want him to do? I think that's plenty.

Mine has sat in front of the fire all day but did go outside to get more wood for the fire. That's all.

Less than that? Seriously. Yes my DH has.

He's ran a bath.
He's drove to tesco and to his sisters.

That's it.

That's more than I've done today!

Myself AND DP have laid on the sofa allllllll day watching rubbish. Occasionally one of us made a cup of tea. Then we ordered a takeaway

It's Sunday

relax!

Yanbu if you were running about, had lots to do and he sat on his arse and refused to help.
Yabu if there wasn't anything much to do, you didn't ask and he wasn't mentally switched off to family life.

Last Saturday I had a hangover and didn't move from the sofa.

We had done shit all, all day.

What is it what you wanted him to do?

Sounds fairly productive for a Sunday.

I've done fuck all today. YABU unless he doesn't pull his weight in general. Its Sunday. A day of rest.

Unless you're going to tell us you e finished your PhD, accompanied 5 children to various parties and activities, done a full supermarket shop and made the week's packed lunches and phoned his Mum, that sounds like a good day.

What did you do today, Op??

DH and I got up late, lay on the couches watching TV, went for lunch then came home and have been on the couches ever since. Was there something you wanted your DH to do? If there was did you ask?

Huh? Cannot work out if the OP is genuine or sarcastic...

Dh played golf, not appear from the bed room since. I have done the shopping ironing, cleaned round, cooked breakfast lunch and dinner, been to the shops, bathed kids, dried hair, done washing... gathered stuff for school tomorrow,helped with homework and reading. Just showered, ready for downton. YANBU

DH made my breakfast, went shopping, looked after DS all day, whilst doing tons of DIY up in the loft conversion, made dinner, two loads of washing, bathed and bedded DS, cleaned the kitchen and has now headed back up to the loft to "have another crack at the corners on the coving". He's also made a million cups of tea.

I've sat on the sofa, then moved to the bed, then had a bath, now back on the sofa.

He should probably do a thread about me on here!

Depends. What have you done today? If you're doing all the house work, yanbu. But otherwise, lazy days are the best days in my opinion.

That's a load more than I have done. And 100% more than my dh.

He's done a lot more than me! I made toast, did a perfunctory 20 mins housework, then sat and watched films all day while eating food made by DH in front of a fire lit by DH.

I went Xmas shopping, clothes for me shopping, food shopping, packed some parcels for eBay, did a bit of prep for work tomorrow, 3 loads of washing, cleaned entire house and cooked dinner
Then I don't have a DH!
As I work fairly long hours, don't get chance to do much of the above at any other time

Mine had a shower and got dressed about an hour ago, and made baked beans on toast for himself and DD. I'm trying to be really fair to him... ooh he made me a cup of tea earlier.