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Steak and blowjob day

267 replies

TwittyMcTwitterson · 13/03/2014 22:10

For those who don't know, this is the male alternative to valentines day which is all about women.

I think it's just a fun day. To be offended or perturbed is just that person being a bit too serious.

I'm a tad nervous of peoples opinions when I buy a big steak and some strawberry flavoured durex play tomorrow. Shock

Just wondering what peoples opinions are to this? I've had reactions varying from a giggle to wtf is that? What a stupid idea.

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TwittyMcTwitterson · 13/03/2014 22:10

Ps it's tomorrow.

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gordyslovesheep · 13/03/2014 22:11

yeh okay then - cause that's a thing Grin

ArtexMonkey · 13/03/2014 22:12

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Impatientismymiddlename · 13/03/2014 22:12

Why is valentines day all about women? By my recollection my husband enjoyed the meal and champagne with me so he benefitted as much as I did.
He might get steak tomorrow (of the minced variety in his spag Bol) but he ain't getting a BJ because I didn't get the equivalent on the so called womens valentines day.

fideline · 13/03/2014 22:12

Don't you be cluttering your little head up with opinions OP. Yours on anyone elses.

If you are confident that this is the type of 'event' a self-respecting woman participates in, you go ahead.

EatShitDerek · 13/03/2014 22:13

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RhondaJean · 13/03/2014 22:13

Oh it is a thing, and has been for some years.

DH has chicken out to defrost for tomorrow.

TallyGrenshall · 13/03/2014 22:13

It will get the same effort as Valentines Day.

Fuck all

SpocksThirdEar · 13/03/2014 22:13

Is Valentines Day all about the women then? Do wives not do nice things for their husbands on Valentines day?

I give not a shit for either day, they are both bollocks imo, so will ignore Steak & BJ day just as I ignored Valentines day.

If I wanted to give my man steak and a blow job, I'd do it, I don't need a special day to do it.

lessonsintightropes · 13/03/2014 22:14

It is a laugh Grin but then I've no objection to either!

RhondaJean · 13/03/2014 22:14

He must have it confused with chicken and licking day (yes another thing)

Sorry posted too soon

SonOfAradia · 13/03/2014 22:14

Valentine's Day is all about women? No it really isn't.

Steak and blowjob day
Janethegirl · 13/03/2014 22:14

I'm game for a steak anytime, but not a strawberry blowjob Grin

seeminglyso · 13/03/2014 22:14

Sounds like some men blagging a blow job and its worked with you OP.

twerkyswizzler · 13/03/2014 22:16

ok, hiding this thread before oh sees it

BIWI · 13/03/2014 22:16

What do I think?
I think 'bleurgh'

ouryve · 13/03/2014 22:16

Well, I've just told DH of the existence of the day, but since we CBA with V-day, we'll not be doing this one, either.

We've got no steak, for starters.

Cutitup · 13/03/2014 22:17

{{{Purses lips!}}

First of all, Valentines Day is NOT about women. It's about marketing.

Secondly, give him his steak and his blowjob. But why is it a special occasion? We call that "Tuesday" in our house Wink

Thirdly, what's your treat? Prawn cocktail and him having a fumble?

ThatBloodyWoman · 13/03/2014 22:17

I am vegetarian therefore he can keep his meat to himself.

BIWI · 13/03/2014 22:17

But, more importantly, why have you posted this in AIBU? What is your question? What do you want to know we might think you're being unreasonable about?

IneedAwittierNickname · 13/03/2014 22:17

I disagree that valentines day is all about the women,
But steak and bj day is the kind of thing me and the ex would have done, just for fun really. Mind you, I received oral sex far more often than I gave it.

RubyGoat · 13/03/2014 22:18

One day, I suspect the supermarkets will catch onto this. Next year, will there be steaks on offer in early March?

Cutitup · 13/03/2014 22:18

That's why he's your ex.

EatShitDerek · 13/03/2014 22:19

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WelshMaenad · 13/03/2014 22:19

I'm self respecting, and I participate. I happen to love both steak, and the giving of a blow job. Plus, he reciprocates.

We don't really go in for valentines day so much.