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Steak and blowjob day

267 replies

TwittyMcTwitterson · 13/03/2014 22:10

For those who don't know, this is the male alternative to valentines day which is all about women.

I think it's just a fun day. To be offended or perturbed is just that person being a bit too serious.

I'm a tad nervous of peoples opinions when I buy a big steak and some strawberry flavoured durex play tomorrow. Shock

Just wondering what peoples opinions are to this? I've had reactions varying from a giggle to wtf is that? What a stupid idea.

OP posts:
TwittyMcTwitterson · 14/03/2014 15:37

Thanks for those really strange images in my head jenipat! Wink

OP posts:
jenipat · 14/03/2014 15:43

Some have been a bit harsh on you here, EveesMummy, I don't think it makes you less of a feminist to do this steak and bj thing, but the 'mixing' -for want of a better word -of food and sex is something that is a turn-off for me and I do think it's a bit naff (sorry!)

But, whatever, if it makes you happy. (that sounds patronising but not meant to be).

daisychain01 · 14/03/2014 15:48

I'm 'behind the curve', I have never even heard of this "day" - is it some American bollocks, or something we have shamefully invented it in this country for people gullible enough to do anything other than ignore, ignore.

My DP doesn't even know about it - we don't need made-up stuff to dictate how we live on a Friday (or M, T, W, T, S or S either!)

MoominIsWaitingToMeetHerMiniMe · 14/03/2014 16:24

DP is at work tonight and I'm pregnant and feeling every second of it so I think tonight is Chicken-Nuggets-and-Lonely-Crying night for me.

Would love a nice steak though.

TwittyMcTwitterson · 14/03/2014 17:08

Jenipat, thank you!! I must say though, I'd imagine there'd be quite a big time lapse between the steak and the blowjob. Or in tonight's case Pizza Hut.

I'm gonna scroll through now to find the post about the initiator. I wonder if he will be an arse...

OP posts:
Solo · 14/03/2014 17:10

I have no one to eat steak with!!

TheArticFunky · 14/03/2014 17:57

I asked dh to pick up dinner on the way home from work. He phoned and asked if I fancied steak (he has no idea about today). I said naa best make it a chicken night. Grin

Latara · 14/03/2014 18:15

Now I understand why one of my FB friends posted a status about 'only' having a tuna steak!

TiggyCBE · 14/03/2014 18:33

Happy SABJD everyone!

Pineapple for dessert might be a nice idea too.

iliketea · 14/03/2014 18:39

DH mentioned this in a jokey manner- he's a vegetarian, and I told him I would gladly make him steak, but before any other treat, he had to eat the steak first Wink

NurseyWursey · 14/03/2014 18:40

My friend who's a butcher has said there's been loaaaads of women in today buying steak and he couldn't help but raise his eyebrows.

Funny how many people buy into it.

TheVictorian · 14/03/2014 18:53

Valentines Day

Basic definition from Wikipedia:

"Saint Valentine's Day, also known as Valentine's Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine,[1] is observed on February 14 each year. It is celebrated in many countries around the world, although it is not a holiday in most of them.

St. Valentine's Day began as a liturgical celebration of one or more early Christian saints named Valentinus. Several martyrdom stories were invented for the various Valentines that belonged to February 14, and added to later martyrologies.[2] A popular hagiographical account of Saint Valentine of Rome states that he was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians, who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. According to legend, during his imprisonment, he healed the daughter of his jailer, Asterius. An embellishment to this story states that before his execution he wrote her a letter signed "Your Valentine" as a farewell.[3] Today, Saint Valentine's Day is an official feast day in the Anglican Communion,[4] as well as in the Lutheran Church.[5] The Eastern Orthodox Church also celebrates Saint Valentine's Day, albeit on July 6 and July 30, the former date in honor of the Roman presbyter Saint Valentine, and the latter date in honor of Hieromartyr Valentine, the Bishop of Interamna (modern Terni). In Brazil, the Dia de São Valentim is recognized on June 12.

The day was first associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished. In 18th-century England, it evolved into an occasion in which lovers expressed their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery, and sending greeting cards (known as "valentines"). Valentine's Day symbols that are used today include the heart-shaped outline, doves, and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten valentines have given way to mass-produced greeting cards.[6]"

Hogwash · 14/03/2014 19:15

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Mintyy · 14/03/2014 20:23

Interesting that fideline's post

"Is it against MN rules to say that OP seems a bit thick?

It really is the kindest explanation."

is allowed to remain when far less personal attacks are deleted within minutes. The inconsistency in moderation on here does my effing head in.

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:26

Sorry to upset you Minty

It DID seem a kinder explanation that the alternative.

Bit surprised it is still there myself.

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:28

And she had been pretending not to understand the difference between a blowjob and an organised global fellatio EVENT for quite some time, so the explanatory options WERE narrowing.

LurcioLovesFrankie · 14/03/2014 20:29

There is no moderation as such on this site - only a report button to which MNHQ responds (as fast as they can depending on whether it's a relatively quiet night or one with a complete shitstorm going on!). I presume neither Evees nor Fideline have reported each other's posts (and all credit to them - if you're going to have a mutual dust-up, at least own it!)

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:31

No I haven't reported. Nice clean fight etc

Mintyy · 14/03/2014 20:36

Oh right but I think I might report Fideline for her deeply unpleasant tone on this thread and the council house one. Because as you know, you can now report a tone you don't like and hq will send a warning shot email.

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:41

Tone? On the council house thread?

Really??!!

I thought I was amazingly wonderfully patient and fluffy on the council house thread, despite being mistaken for a council tenant and therefore subjected to rude personal scrounger-bashing Confused Hmm

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:42

Minty have a Wine

Mintyy · 14/03/2014 20:52

You see, your suggestion that I have a Wine is offensive in itself, isn't it.

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:53

Is it?

Just keeping the tone friendly

fideline · 14/03/2014 20:54

Does it look bribery?

I could offer you Cake instead?

Mintyy · 14/03/2014 20:55

No thank you.

I've got a lovely steak to bung on the grill pan and I'm expecting to be busy later.