...to change the bedding once a week?

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Do you think that's adequate? New partner says his ExDW changed it every 2-3 days. Now as far as I know they weren't bonking like mad (or so he told me!) so I don't see the need for that frequency! He's started staying over at mines on weekends, usually a Saturday but this week he stayed on Friday so the same sheets were on since the previous Sat iyswim. Also, we hadn't had sex in the bed the last time he was here (tmi?). I would normally change them on a Saturday morning as I work full time mon-fri. I'm actually feeling a bit about him comparing my cleanliness to ExDW as she didn't work. Anyway, I'm ranting. How often do you change your sheets?

once per week here

I aim for once a fortnight

Every couple of weeks. And he can fuck right off now with the XDW comparisons.

I wouldnt worry I change mine every 2 weeks in the winter and every week in summer.

Leave out a fresh set of bedding on Friday night and tell him to knock himself out. If he's not happy with then insist there can be no shagging as the sheets are already "too dirty" and you can't be arsed changing them. Once a week is Anthea Turner territory already, you don't need to do it any more than that if you don't feel the need.

Every 2-3 days is bonkers.

But what kind of nutcase compares his new partner with his ex-wife to her face? How much of a simpleton is he?!

Once a week. The only times I changed every 2/3 days was when bfing the DC (post natal sweatiness and milky everywhere eeeew).

Once a week

Tell him to Fuck off with the comparisons too!

Every couple of months here if I can be arsed.

I aim for once a week but sometimes it's once a fortnight but then DH's pillow starts to smell like vinegar

Once a week here!

Wow, I'm feeling the opposite of a domestic goddess here - aim for once a fortnight. YANBU!

I try to do it once a week, but the idea of someone monitoring my sheet-changing levels PLUS comparing to ex equals massive FAIL in my book! I agree with the craicdealer - leave him the sheets and tell him to fill his boots. You could leave a duster out for him too....

Once a week and ditto to all the posters who say if he keeps comparing you to ex-w to bin him!

OK, there is a MNer who changed their bedding EVERYDAY! IIRC I think it is Getorfmyland. She might come on here and tell you!

Every week here.

My mum changed hers once a week and I think I've just picked up the routine, she always did it on a Sat morning too. I think this guy might be for the bin!

Once a week here too :)

Better idea! Tell him your ex had two showers a day and you find his current levels of showering unacceptable!

Once a fortnight. Probaby. Ish

And he's a brave man comparing you to exDW. Tell him your ex had a bigger willy just in case he's interested.

I'm a tramp
And it's
Like less than monthly here lol

Once a week in summer, sometimes longer in winter. More often if people are I'll and hot and sweaty. Less often if I can't be arsed.

Even when I have had a daily cleaner I didn't bother having the sheets changed anymore often.

Now who irons their bedding???

Definitely bin him if he is already moaning about your housekeeping and comparing you unfavourably to his ex-wife!

Once a week here too btw.

Once a fortnight. Sometimes slips to 3 weeks though if I get busy doing other washing.