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To consider a harrassment order on this psycho lying stalker sl*t

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Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:41

So this evening my parents received a call from my ex MIL........

XMIL was approached by psycho sl^t (I literally had no idea who she was/her name/nor remembered her loser existence on this planet). Anyway psycho said to XMIL "Choochooboogie was married to your DS? Choochooboogie keeps saying that my father is her father to people in the village". I don't know the exact conversation - but that's basically what was said.

To add to this insanity, psycho slt's fathet sent my DM an email in early 2010 telling my DM to control me, because apparently I had sent psycho slt an email saying that I think psycho sl^t's father is my father.

I can't even remember what the email said exactly because it was so ludicrous and laughable we brushed it off. But my DM eloquently said 'GFY if my DD was going to 'choose' a father it would not be a loser like you, nor would she choose psycho sl^t half-siblings!!'

I come from a very 'normal' family, parents happily married for 30+ years, wonderful loving siblings and neices/nephews. We are v close, and have a lovely relationship as a family. And I adore my father. We all do. Never have I doubted the paternity?!?! It's never even crossed my mind, the words have never been uttered!!

Psycho slt is like her DM as far as I know - a psycho slt (ok I am assuming). But I really don't know anything about them. I have never seen psycho slt's father or even know he is - and I've never cared to wonder. I went to school with the youngest sister. And I think the middle sister was in upper school. But I have never met or even seen psycho slt!!!! Why would I approach psycho sl^t???? Obviously I would email the girl I went to school with?!

I even saw the younger sister with my sister last year in Primark! She never said anything....?! They come from a very troubled family and all I know is that the mother was the 'village bike'. I assume parents are divorced. A family friend told me at least a decade ago that some of the daughters had ran away. I don't know details - never cared to ask.

Anyway, what do I do? I am thinking of getting a harrassment order because I want her to know she will not be messing with me and my family. My parents don't want to be subject to gossip...nor in the hands of someone who could be potentially dangerous. I brushed it off a couple years back.......but psycho sl^t is obviously insane/her DM is spreading jealous lies??

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RaisinDEritrea · 31/07/2012 20:43

sorry I don't understand

mumblechum1 · 31/07/2012 20:43

I just don't know where to start with this one.

If you are serious about legal action, then in theory you could try to get an injunction against her but to be honest it would probably only make things worse.

MamaMumra · 31/07/2012 20:43

Village life!

BupcakesandCunting · 31/07/2012 20:44

What do you do?

You apply to JEREMY KYLE for a lie detector/DNA double-whammy of course!

HecateHarshPants · 31/07/2012 20:45

if you feel you are being harassed, then I suggest a solicitor's letter.

Tee2072 · 31/07/2012 20:45

Okay, first of all, I don't know what a sl^t is.

Because of that I really can't answer the question because I can't read symbols.

HTH

LRDtheFeministDragon · 31/07/2012 20:45

Um ... I don't quite understand, but 'psycho slut' is disgusting language to use about anyone.

Are you saying she thinks you've been saying you're half-sisters? And you haven't?

Maybe she thinks your dad is her dad, for whatever reason, and has got things confused?

How does this make her a 'slut', or her mum the 'village bike'? You sound awful.

HecateHarshPants · 31/07/2012 20:46

oh yes, and there's no filter here. You can say slut. Or even psychoslut.

If you want to.

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JumpingThroughHoops · 31/07/2012 20:47

psycho sl^t

Why is she a sl^t if your father is bonking her mother, allegedly..Or was it her father bonking your mother. Its all a bit mad really isn't it?

bit rude of you to cast aspertions about the mother though

As you arent the recipient of any emails I doubt you would get any form of order against her. So why you are out of your pram, why our xmil is repeating gossip - it all sounds just a bit inbred.

ShowOfHands · 31/07/2012 20:47

Is psycho lying stalker slut her given name or her working title?

Lucyellensmum99 · 31/07/2012 20:47

i second a solicitors letter too, although you may have to be a teensy bit more clearer in your explanation too as i am pretty lost tbh.

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 20:48

WELL WELL WELL

AlexReidsLonelyBraincell · 31/07/2012 20:49

Slit, slot, slat, sleet?

Ffs, you are allowed to type slut you know.

Agree with previous poster, there's a Jeremy Kyle double parter in this somewhere.

Dprince · 31/07/2012 20:49

You all sound lovely, including your mum withe her 'eloquently' worded reply.

ShowOfHands · 31/07/2012 20:49

Is she called Sharon?

AlexReidsLonelyBraincell · 31/07/2012 20:50

Oh Jezza, good evening. I think you're going to need the 'Genius' for this one. Grin

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 20:51

The Genius has got a night off tonight. He's gone out up the casino with Will Envelope.

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:51

Basically

She claims that I think her father is my father.

And yes rather rude of me to call her a slut. But frustration - what to do.

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Dprince · 31/07/2012 20:52

I think there is going to be a fb link to this story that will leave jezza rolling his eyes to the heavens and shouting 'oh my god'.

AlexReidsLonelyBraincell · 31/07/2012 20:52

Ooh, cheeky boom boom!

LRDtheFeministDragon · 31/07/2012 20:53

Erm, quite a lot of options on 'what to do' before you call her a slut. If you use this language towards her, frankly, it ain't her being harrassed.

How did you try to set her straight? Or have you not written that bit yet?