Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To consider a harrassment order on this psycho lying stalker sl*t

232 replies

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:41

So this evening my parents received a call from my ex MIL........

XMIL was approached by psycho sl^t (I literally had no idea who she was/her name/nor remembered her loser existence on this planet). Anyway psycho said to XMIL "Choochooboogie was married to your DS? Choochooboogie keeps saying that my father is her father to people in the village". I don't know the exact conversation - but that's basically what was said.

To add to this insanity, psycho slt's fathet sent my DM an email in early 2010 telling my DM to control me, because apparently I had sent psycho slt an email saying that I think psycho sl^t's father is my father.

I can't even remember what the email said exactly because it was so ludicrous and laughable we brushed it off. But my DM eloquently said 'GFY if my DD was going to 'choose' a father it would not be a loser like you, nor would she choose psycho sl^t half-siblings!!'

I come from a very 'normal' family, parents happily married for 30+ years, wonderful loving siblings and neices/nephews. We are v close, and have a lovely relationship as a family. And I adore my father. We all do. Never have I doubted the paternity?!?! It's never even crossed my mind, the words have never been uttered!!

Psycho slt is like her DM as far as I know - a psycho slt (ok I am assuming). But I really don't know anything about them. I have never seen psycho slt's father or even know he is - and I've never cared to wonder. I went to school with the youngest sister. And I think the middle sister was in upper school. But I have never met or even seen psycho slt!!!! Why would I approach psycho sl^t???? Obviously I would email the girl I went to school with?!

I even saw the younger sister with my sister last year in Primark! She never said anything....?! They come from a very troubled family and all I know is that the mother was the 'village bike'. I assume parents are divorced. A family friend told me at least a decade ago that some of the daughters had ran away. I don't know details - never cared to ask.

Anyway, what do I do? I am thinking of getting a harrassment order because I want her to know she will not be messing with me and my family. My parents don't want to be subject to gossip...nor in the hands of someone who could be potentially dangerous. I brushed it off a couple years back.......but psycho sl^t is obviously insane/her DM is spreading jealous lies??

OP posts:
lastnerve · 31/07/2012 23:29

Erm, quite a lot of options on 'what to do' before you call her a slut. If you use this language towards her, frankly, it ain't her being harrassed.

you can't be serious , being called a slut is not the end of the world and especially when the woman has been harassing the OP I think calling her a slut id the least important thing here.

However OP, have you not asked her why she thinks this??.

Salmotrutta · 01/08/2012 00:15

lastnerve - the woman hasn't really been "harassing" the OP though, has she?

She has passed on a lie (twice) but hasn't interacted directly with the OP.

And actually - if someone was saying I had been mouthing off about who my Dad was, and I called that someone a slut, I'd have descended into the sort of territory I would be ashamed to find myself in.

tuckingfits · 01/08/2012 00:33

Oh no,please don't stop - I've been laughing my head off & if you stop I'll have to go & work!!

SinisterBuggyMonth · 01/08/2012 00:41

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

MyinnergoddessisatLidl · 01/08/2012 00:42

I know! Please don't let's get all serious again, the thread is a work of art!

ShadowsCollideWithPeople · 01/08/2012 03:14

Sorry, I got about a quarter way through this thread and then read Reality's 'turboslut' post. Fan of Empire Records, Reality? 'Cos all I can think of now is that scene outside the pizza place where Corey takes off her red bra and says 'I'm not like you, stop trying to make like you', and Gina says 'like me, the turboslut'. I may have seen that movie too many times, but fuck me, it is fucking brilliant!!

Dprince · 01/08/2012 07:29

I wonder if the OP has been given her phone back yet?
OP if you do come back please note there is a difference between sarcasm and lying. I would have hoped you posh boarding school would've taught you that.
I bet psycho^slut, who I shall call Sharon from now on, knows the difference.
Does her dad stand like t-rex? Is that why she thinks you would be jealous.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page