To consider a harrassment order on this psycho lying stalker sl*t

[Choochooboogie]

So this evening my parents received a call from my ex MIL........

XMIL was approached by psycho sl^t (I literally had no idea who she was/her name/nor remembered her loser existence on this planet). Anyway psycho said to XMIL "Choochooboogie was married to your DS? Choochooboogie keeps saying that my father is her father to people in the village". I don't know the exact conversation - but that's basically what was said.

To add to this insanity, psycho slt's fathet sent my DM an email in early 2010 telling my DM to control me, because apparently I had sent psycho slt an email saying that I think psycho sl^t's father is my father.

I can't even remember what the email said exactly because it was so ludicrous and laughable we brushed it off. But my DM eloquently said 'GFY if my DD was going to 'choose' a father it would not be a loser like you, nor would she choose psycho sl^t half-siblings!!'

I come from a very 'normal' family, parents happily married for 30+ years, wonderful loving siblings and neices/nephews. We are v close, and have a lovely relationship as a family. And I adore my father. We all do. Never have I doubted the paternity?!?! It's never even crossed my mind, the words have never been uttered!!

Psycho slt is like her DM as far as I know - a psycho slt (ok I am assuming). But I really don't know anything about them. I have never seen psycho slt's father or even know he is - and I've never cared to wonder. I went to school with the youngest sister. And I think the middle sister was in upper school. But I have never met or even seen psycho slt!!!! Why would I approach psycho sl^t???? Obviously I would email the girl I went to school with?!

I even saw the younger sister with my sister last year in Primark! She never said anything....?! They come from a very troubled family and all I know is that the mother was the 'village bike'. I assume parents are divorced. A family friend told me at least a decade ago that some of the daughters had ran away. I don't know details - never cared to ask.

Anyway, what do I do? I am thinking of getting a harrassment order because I want her to know she will not be messing with me and my family. My parents don't want to be subject to gossip...nor in the hands of someone who could be potentially dangerous. I brushed it off a couple years back.......but psycho sl^t is obviously insane/her DM is spreading jealous lies??

Fantastic thread !

SarahS, that's what I don't get either. If there are barristers in the family, why ask MN for legal advice.

How long does the craziness of the full moon lasts?

salmo apparantly the OPs mother didn't say that and the OP was being sarcastic when she said it.

It is quite good isn't it?

I think the OP has been sent to bed now though.

Or she's had her 15 minutes of attention-seeking drama.

aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrroooooooo

I used to have a t-shirt with psychobitch on when I was a rebellious yoof...I thought I was so cool...

I bet her name is sharron!!

I did not want to explain the situationto family members

She hasn't gone to bed, she is simply backstage with the aftercare team getting some help.

from what i can gather,

you dont know her full name but you do know her sister,
you dont know her dad but you do know your dad,
she lives in the next village,
your mother is not really bothered by the suituation,
you think she is a slut as is her mother,
you are certain your dad is your dad,
she says you have said her dad is your dad,
you have never said this,
she has never personally told you this,
your exmil lives in the next village as well,

if ive missed anything relivant sorry.

why are you even bothered by this? exactly what impact do her actions have on you?

Yes DPrince, but my spidey senses tell me that OP is back-pedalling like a good 'un.

Can't have her family looking like common plebby types with mouths on them.

oooh, out to dinner - is it Hungry Horse or wevverspoons?

"I did not want to explain the situationto family members"

half of them know all about this dont they?

maybe she is implying that your father is her father?
(if her mother is really that er, free with her affections as alleged?)
after all the so-called 'psychoslut' (not liking that phrase btw) is apparently much older than you; & your father may have 'met' her mother before
meeting your mother; or before your parents had you.

So she really could be your half sister.
Get the DNA tests ready!!!

Ps. i hate villages - too gossipy & cliquey by far.
pps. a while ago i was in a friend's village pub where a young woman known as 'the village bike' (& much worse) was at the bar...
i remember saying ''what about the men she slept with?? Why aren't they being called slags / sluts / bikes etc?!''

Well, just why??

Thought you were going out to dinner OP?

Jezza, I think I love you

Nope no back pedalling in regards to what my mother said. Fact!(!)

You live in a village and you don't know everyone?

sorry cant be arsed to read op.

if you are going to call someone a slut-call them a slut not sl*t or sl@t or whatever.

You're making this up aren't you OP? Go on, you can tell us. Nobody will think any worse of you on account of that simply won't be possible.

Calm yourself down, AF. If you're going to come on to me I need to put something on the end of it.

McDonalds. Durr.

I don't get this. It doesn't make sense.

If her father sent your mother an email. How did he get her email? And do they know each other from the past?

Well, what did your mother really say then oif she didn't actually call the man a loser or suggest his kids weren't the sort of half-siblings you would choose?

I'm curious how different her response actually was to what you put in your OP?