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To consider a harrassment order on this psycho lying stalker sl*t

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Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:41

So this evening my parents received a call from my ex MIL........

XMIL was approached by psycho sl^t (I literally had no idea who she was/her name/nor remembered her loser existence on this planet). Anyway psycho said to XMIL "Choochooboogie was married to your DS? Choochooboogie keeps saying that my father is her father to people in the village". I don't know the exact conversation - but that's basically what was said.

To add to this insanity, psycho slt's fathet sent my DM an email in early 2010 telling my DM to control me, because apparently I had sent psycho slt an email saying that I think psycho sl^t's father is my father.

I can't even remember what the email said exactly because it was so ludicrous and laughable we brushed it off. But my DM eloquently said 'GFY if my DD was going to 'choose' a father it would not be a loser like you, nor would she choose psycho sl^t half-siblings!!'

I come from a very 'normal' family, parents happily married for 30+ years, wonderful loving siblings and neices/nephews. We are v close, and have a lovely relationship as a family. And I adore my father. We all do. Never have I doubted the paternity?!?! It's never even crossed my mind, the words have never been uttered!!

Psycho slt is like her DM as far as I know - a psycho slt (ok I am assuming). But I really don't know anything about them. I have never seen psycho slt's father or even know he is - and I've never cared to wonder. I went to school with the youngest sister. And I think the middle sister was in upper school. But I have never met or even seen psycho slt!!!! Why would I approach psycho sl^t???? Obviously I would email the girl I went to school with?!

I even saw the younger sister with my sister last year in Primark! She never said anything....?! They come from a very troubled family and all I know is that the mother was the 'village bike'. I assume parents are divorced. A family friend told me at least a decade ago that some of the daughters had ran away. I don't know details - never cared to ask.

Anyway, what do I do? I am thinking of getting a harrassment order because I want her to know she will not be messing with me and my family. My parents don't want to be subject to gossip...nor in the hands of someone who could be potentially dangerous. I brushed it off a couple years back.......but psycho sl^t is obviously insane/her DM is spreading jealous lies??

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Dprince · 31/07/2012 21:00

OP is all seriousness, she must have got this from somewhere.

Salmotrutta · 31/07/2012 21:01

You have an adjacent village pleb part? Shock

AlexReidsLonelyBraincell · 31/07/2012 21:02

Not that SOCIAL NETWORKING SITE?!

usualsuspect · 31/07/2012 21:02

A village full of plebs like me Shock

LRDtheFeministDragon · 31/07/2012 21:04

So ... to sum up ...

This woman has the idea she's your half-sister, and she thinks that's what you think.

She's said so to family members.

You've not bothered to send her a quick letter explaining she's barking up the wrong tree ... you want to get your lawyers on her?

D'you think maybe the quick letter first off would help a wee bit? And be cheaper?

Salmotrutta · 31/07/2012 21:04

I'm a pleb - I think. Well, I'm certainly not a patrician anyway.

Tee2072 · 31/07/2012 21:05

I'm deffo a pleb. ::nods::

Anyway, I have to agree that she got this idea from some where.

OovoofWelcome · 31/07/2012 21:06

If that woman is making outlandish and bizarre claims, for absolutely no reason, then she probably has mental health issues.

A solicitor's letter sounds the best option. Then ignore her.

The whole 'psycho slut' thing and labelling people 'plebs' makes you sound really questionable though, even if you are wound up and frustrated.

Salmotrutta · 31/07/2012 21:07

Being a pleb isn't so bad:

See Here

Ormiriathomimus · 31/07/2012 21:07

'psychoslut'?? Hmm

Dprince · 31/07/2012 21:07

Are you from the classier part then? Because tbh, it not coming across.

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 21:08

Oi, OP! Over here!

Why've you gone all quiet?! You couldn't say enough at the start of the show, I mean thread, CAT GOT YOUR TONGUE?

RealityAlwaysWins · 31/07/2012 21:08

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Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 21:09

I am on facebook, but I don't post statuses/family pictures so I don't know how I would be on her radar. I am not searchable/users are unable to send me messages unless the user is a friend

I have held back from engaging a lawyer because I am reluctant of creating 'drama'. If it will disappear by ignoring, I would prefer that. However, I don't want to have Her to appear in my life again in another 2 years

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squeakytoy · 31/07/2012 21:10

Interesting first post anyway...

LRDtheFeministDragon · 31/07/2012 21:10

Yes, god forbid you create a 'drama'.

It would play on ITV with women in lovely hats and Dame Judi Dench in the role of psychosl>t.

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 21:11

I can't send her a quick letter because I don't know her name..................

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RealityAlwaysWins · 31/07/2012 21:11

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Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 21:12

Not a firstpost - name change

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JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 21:12

WELL YOU SHOULD DAMN WELL MAKE IT YOUR BUSINESS TO FIND OUT HER NAME!

Dprince · 31/07/2012 21:12

Your sister knows her sister, surely you can find out.

Sportofino · 31/07/2012 21:12

So you joined MN to share this? I have an immediate antipathy to anyone describing another woman as the "village bike", I have to say.

squeakytoy · 31/07/2012 21:13

You dont know her name?

Ask your sister to ask her sister then, or ask your mum as she must have the name on the email... or your exMIL... surely one of them must know her name..

Dprince · 31/07/2012 21:14

That's why she is ringing you exmil. She can't find you on fb. Which is the only way to have a feud, as jezza knows.

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 21:14

I know her maiden name - I'm assuming she may be married

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