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To consider a harrassment order on this psycho lying stalker sl*t

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Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:41

So this evening my parents received a call from my ex MIL........

XMIL was approached by psycho sl^t (I literally had no idea who she was/her name/nor remembered her loser existence on this planet). Anyway psycho said to XMIL "Choochooboogie was married to your DS? Choochooboogie keeps saying that my father is her father to people in the village". I don't know the exact conversation - but that's basically what was said.

To add to this insanity, psycho slt's fathet sent my DM an email in early 2010 telling my DM to control me, because apparently I had sent psycho slt an email saying that I think psycho sl^t's father is my father.

I can't even remember what the email said exactly because it was so ludicrous and laughable we brushed it off. But my DM eloquently said 'GFY if my DD was going to 'choose' a father it would not be a loser like you, nor would she choose psycho sl^t half-siblings!!'

I come from a very 'normal' family, parents happily married for 30+ years, wonderful loving siblings and neices/nephews. We are v close, and have a lovely relationship as a family. And I adore my father. We all do. Never have I doubted the paternity?!?! It's never even crossed my mind, the words have never been uttered!!

Psycho slt is like her DM as far as I know - a psycho slt (ok I am assuming). But I really don't know anything about them. I have never seen psycho slt's father or even know he is - and I've never cared to wonder. I went to school with the youngest sister. And I think the middle sister was in upper school. But I have never met or even seen psycho slt!!!! Why would I approach psycho sl^t???? Obviously I would email the girl I went to school with?!

I even saw the younger sister with my sister last year in Primark! She never said anything....?! They come from a very troubled family and all I know is that the mother was the 'village bike'. I assume parents are divorced. A family friend told me at least a decade ago that some of the daughters had ran away. I don't know details - never cared to ask.

Anyway, what do I do? I am thinking of getting a harrassment order because I want her to know she will not be messing with me and my family. My parents don't want to be subject to gossip...nor in the hands of someone who could be potentially dangerous. I brushed it off a couple years back.......but psycho sl^t is obviously insane/her DM is spreading jealous lies??

OP posts:
Tiredmumno1 · 31/07/2012 20:53

So you're basically saying you know of this so called erm slut, and she is making odd rumours up about you, and it is making yours and your families life a misery? And in fact you have nothing to do with her at all and she is just a trouble maker?

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 20:53

How old are you Choochoo?

usualsuspect · 31/07/2012 20:53

'stunnedface'

HecateHarshPants · 31/07/2012 20:53

solicitor's letter.

legal action.

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:53

Dprince. I was being sarcastic. Obviously my mothet if a certain age wouod never be as foul mouthed as her DD!!

And this is exactly what we want to avoid!! Appearing like a Jeremy
Kyke episode!!

OP posts:
Tee2072 · 31/07/2012 20:53

Do you want her father to be your father? Is he rich? Is that why he cares?

::wonders why she's still engaging::

Schlock · 31/07/2012 20:54

Wut?

TandB · 31/07/2012 20:54

I have no idea but I think someone should probably have put something on the end of something.

Possibly.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 31/07/2012 20:54

You're doing well with that, chooch. Not JK at all.

Listen to hecate, she's both right and more patient than the rest of us.

NagooingForGold · 31/07/2012 20:55

so you have done nothing and this girl says that you say her dad is your dad.

She said it in an email 2 years ago and to your Ex-MIL this week.

That's not enough to constitute harassment even if you had kept the email.

Ignore it.

Something tells me you did something to provoke this, or why would you refer to a girl you don't know as a 'psychoslut?

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 20:55

jezzakyle - young enough to plead immaturity, old enough to know better

LRD I have not set her straight because I have never met her before!! But I hope to set her straight with my lawyer

OP posts:
mumblechum1 · 31/07/2012 20:56

Am I the only one thinking Vicky Pollard yehbutnobut?

Salmotrutta · 31/07/2012 20:57

Gosh - I doubt that coming onto a website to post about it would be my first reaction.
It happened this evening you say?

Dprince · 31/07/2012 20:57

So what did your mother reply?
That's not sarcasm, btw, that's stretching the truth
lying

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 20:57

Why has it taken you this long TO GET A DNA TEST???

HighJumpingHissy · 31/07/2012 20:58

You know some would say that MN is mostly made up of middle class, educated, guardian reading, right on, lentil weaving, mooncup filling, boden wearing wimmin.

Apparently not. Shock Grin

AlexReidsLonelyBraincell · 31/07/2012 20:58

All joking aside, she may be vile, annoying, whatever. But constantly referring to her as Psychoslut doesn't exactly make you look rational op.

Where has she got the idea from? How do you know her?

Salmotrutta · 31/07/2012 20:58

My first reaction would be a call to my solicitor.

Dprince · 31/07/2012 20:59

go on jezza sit on the step and ask the OP 'can you honestly say you have done enough?'

AnyFuckerWillMakeDoWithBronze · 31/07/2012 20:59

Did you mean to sound like an aggressive arsehole ?

AmazingBouncingFerret · 31/07/2012 20:59

well

Choochooboogie · 31/07/2012 21:00

Nagooingforgold I called her a psychoslut because she is spreading lies......which is rather provoking

Tee2072 i have no idea who her father is. But the family are from the adjacent village.....the pleb part!! I prefer our side of town with my DF!!!

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LordOfThe5Rings · 31/07/2012 21:00

It's just a little bit of gossip surely you can laugh off such a stupid way of behaving - what is causing you to become so irate?

Calling anyone a psycho slut is a nasty thing to say and pretty immature in many ways.

She may be acting in a stupid way but ignore, ignore, delete emails, ignore, ignore, move on and forget about her if she's that messed up way in thinking.

SoleSource · 31/07/2012 21:00

I blame the T- Rex.

JezzaKyle · 31/07/2012 21:00

ARE YOU ON FACEBOOK?