Just found my husband with someone else.

[morewinevicar]

I walked straight out, but have nowhere to go. No stuff. My little boy is asleep in the house. I was away on a course but couldn't stand to stay at the rubbish travel lodge for the night so drove for hours and just got home. Andmy husband was on the sofa with a woman. Very blonde but didn't see much else and they were drinking and looked like they'd just jumped apart when they heard the door. I'm shaking. I don't know where to go. My son is in the house. How could he?????

I am about to go to sleep but didn't want to leave you unanswered. Is there anyone you can ring? Mum, sister, friend?

do you have anyone you can go to, a trusted friend, give you some space....

go home with your son, kick him out. Tea with plenty of sugar.

Poor you. Huge sympathy. can you not ask him to leave for a while so you can have a think?

It's your house and, as you say, your ds is there. So go back in. If you don't want to have it out now just say 'I'm going upstairs don't follow me'
Sorry

I agree with secret lemonade drinker.

Can you go to a hotel, or is there a friend or relative that you can call?

go home to your son and insist that he leaves

the fucking cunt

Agreed, gird your loins and get back in there. So sorry you are going through this, will leave the night owls to support you x

Or you could march back through the door and kick their butts out. it is your home too.

Where are you Vicar ? (as in what town?) do you have a mum friend you can go to?

Make him leave, don't you leave. Get back out of your car and tell him and her to get the hell out.

Bloody Hell. Bastard.

Your house. Go back in!

can a friend or family member go back there with you?

Go home. If you have your mobile is there anyone you can call to cone with you? But I still think you should go home and ideally he will leave and stay in crappy travelodge.

What a nightmare - agree with everyone else. Go home. Tell him you don't want to talk about it right now (assuming you need to get your head straight) and tell him to sleep on sofa or clear off to a mates. Good luck and I hope it gets sorted soon.

go back, kick him out and go and cuddle your LO :(

I look like a state now I can't dace walking back in there until I know she's gone. My sister is in bloody Florida and I'm humiliated. Can't turn up on someones doorstep like this. I can't stop shaking. I've never seen her before in my life. Why didn't he follow me?????

Worcester park.

Yes, I agree. Deep breath and return to the house. Hope you're ok.

Where are you in relation to the house. Could you ring on your mobile and tell him to get her out immediately. Then go back.

Don't worry about what you look like.

Text/call him and say that you'll be back in x amount of time and when you get there she'd better be gone and he should be at the door ready to leave?

Where are you and who's around? can you go to a relative? or more importantly can they come to you? Once you have someone with you go home be with your son in your home and kick him out. consider everythingelse in the morning right now look after yourself and youor son.

It is ok to look a state, they are in no position to judge your appearance.
Are you afraid of him being cruel. or something like that? Don't be humiliated, be ANGRY!