Just found my husband with someone else.

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I walked straight out, but have nowhere to go. No stuff. My little boy is asleep in the house. I was away on a course but couldn't stand to stay at the rubbish travel lodge for the night so drove for hours and just got home. Andmy husband was on the sofa with a woman. Very blonde but didn't see much else and they were drinking and looked like they'd just jumped apart when they heard the door. I'm shaking. I don't know where to go. My son is in the house. How could he?????

I did it. I said get her out, I'll be there in ten minutes, then you can get out as well.

Jesus Christ.

You don't need the cigs. Get back to your son, your house. He and her have much more to feel bad about than you. Let him find somewhere for the night.
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I hope you are 'okay' (stupid thing to say I know but you know what I mean).

Call a friend and ask them to come with you if you can't face going back alone. And call/text him and ask if she is gone yet (and if not then why not) and go back to your son.

How old is your son?

I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

I have no advice other than what's been offered by others (go home and be under the same roof with your baby - let your husband worry about where to go and who to turn to) but wanted to add my 'voice' to those who are here to support you.

Well done, what an awful situation you are in

well done.

Good for you.
No advice but sending you lots of strength and support.

Well done OP, that's the right thing. Be strong.

Has he ever done anything like this before?

Don't buy cigs, if you are not a smoker they might make you dizzy or sick.

Please get yourself inside safe and warm. It is all backwards for you to be out in the cold.

Well done. You're doing great, just keep breathing. Soon you'll be able to be with your son and they'll be gone.

Oh well done.

Well done OP, hope you are relatively ok. Wish I was there to help

well done, now stay strong, tell him you want him out and talk to him when your ready, and NOT when he wants too.

Cock. Hope you're OK. Do you have wine (and cigarettes maybe, but not if you'll get addicted) in the house? Gin?

Well done.
Deep breaths, and be strong for you and your DS.
Definitely don't be cajoled into any discussions tonight with your h.

Well done. Good luck with the rest of it - however shit it may be. You are strong enough to get through this (with no cigs).

hey well done for going back it's yout home. you poor thing. Try to get some rest tonight.

Don't let this shock drive you back to smoking after you have quit. You won't feel any better anyways!
Glad you called him. I was thinking just maybe they did not get the chance to see you if you left so quickly, and maybe just thought they heard something?

fuck yeah! you are strong and brave, even if you don't feel it. well done. go get your fags, have one to steady yourself and then in you go. only have it out if you want to. remember, you hold the cards, he is in the wrong. deal with things as and when you want to.

Stay strong, get him out, only talk when you are ready. Be with your son. We are all here for you.

sod the wine.

get back in there and kick the fuckers out.

You need to think of your ds.

Get them out and try to rest.

Sort out all this shit with dh you feel up to it(and on your terms).