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Original poster

Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

206 replies

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

OP posts:
Beamur · 18/02/2025 22:31

Quite ridiculous. Mind your own business!

RIPVPROG · 18/02/2025 22:32

None of your business! How do you know she's sleeping with both of them and even if she is how do you know she's exclusive with either of them?!

Moodypony · 18/02/2025 22:32

Oh, definitely say something.

2025willbemytime · 18/02/2025 22:33

What the hell now?!

Keep your nose out. It is literally NONE of your business unless one of the men are your boyfriend, brother or son.

DramaAlpaca · 18/02/2025 22:33

I don't understand why you would think it's any of your business Confused

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 18/02/2025 22:33

Ludicrous.

StolenChanel · 18/02/2025 22:33

Jheeze Louise, people really don’t know how to mind their own!

If you do choose to say anything, please do let us know exactly how well it goes down.

FrillyGoat · 18/02/2025 22:34

surely no one is actually taking the OP seriously??

frenchonionsnoop · 18/02/2025 22:34

Classic half term nonsense thread.

Yeah, definitely get involved in her business… 🙄

Yellowbananasarebetterthangreen · 18/02/2025 22:34

Its half term......... Im guessing you've not got around to doing your homework yet.
Apologies if you are genuine but Im suspicious that you are actually just a bored teenager.

MuddyPawsIndoors · 18/02/2025 22:34

Jump in and have an orgy.

You'll feel better for it.

RaininSummer · 18/02/2025 22:34

You are crazily nosy. Why is it any of your business?

Beamur · 18/02/2025 22:34

FrillyGoat · 18/02/2025 22:34

surely no one is actually taking the OP seriously??

I do hope so 😂😂😂😂

Youcalyptus · 18/02/2025 22:35

They could be her brothers! Or business partners! Or viola tutors! Or personal trainers! Or she could be, you know, seeing two guys... some people do, doesn't mean they don't know or they are unethical.

beAsensible1 · 18/02/2025 22:35

Mind your beeswax and stop being a curtain twitcher.

Bojanglesmcduff · 18/02/2025 22:35

You need a new hobby.

healthybychristmas · 18/02/2025 22:35

Say something and let us know what she says in return.

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 18/02/2025 22:36

It’s a bit of a boring plot so far, perhaps liven it up with a murder or two?

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 18/02/2025 22:37

Or viola tutors!

Nobody needs even one of those - I’d be reporting as antisocial behaviour.

Coconutter24 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Not sure if they know about each other..

You have no facts and you don’t what’s going on so why insert yourself in someone’s business you know nothing about?

Original poster
Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

OP posts:
Middlepiepush · 18/02/2025 22:39

Moodypony · 18/02/2025 22:32

Oh, definitely say something.

🤣🤣

purpleme12 · 18/02/2025 22:39

I'm sure there used to be other threads from weird people posting weird stuff about neighbours

Maybe they've decided to come back...

Chuchoter · 18/02/2025 22:39

Knock on her door and give her a stern talking to. She'll be very grateful that you've made her see sense.

Twinstudy · 18/02/2025 22:40

You need to alert the church elders immediately