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Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

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Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

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ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 18/02/2025 22:40

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Why would it? They’re not visiting my house.

Glasgowgal200 · 18/02/2025 22:40

So!! 😒

Middlepiepush · 18/02/2025 22:41

I applaud your moral compass.
Break in and leave hidden.cameras in her bedroom so you can gather hard evidence. That’s the only logical way forward

Diningtableornot · 18/02/2025 22:42

@Neighbourwoes2 You're not serious, are you? It's none of your business and you have no idea what is going on, so why would it bother you?

XenoBitch · 18/02/2025 22:42

Mind your own business. It would not bother me. Why would it?

80smonster · 18/02/2025 22:42

Get a life.

PickledMuffin · 18/02/2025 22:43

🥱

Redglitter · 18/02/2025 22:44

And what exactly would you say. How would you see that conversation going exactly

dontcryformeargentina · 18/02/2025 22:44

Jealous?

iluwn · 18/02/2025 22:44

Yes, please let them know and update us asap.
Shamelessly placemarking

Deedeesharpwhatkindoflady · 18/02/2025 22:45

Go to her door and say .
Oi you why do you need two cocks
When one will do.

letslaughitoff · 18/02/2025 22:46

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

If it was real lol.
No it wouldn't bother me id be thinking good on her.
Keep ya nose out of it op her life as nothing to do with you or are you jealous.
They could be family for all you know.

ClaraMumsnet · 18/02/2025 22:46

This is understandably getting reported a lot. The OP has been with us for a while and never given us cause for concern, so we're inclined to give the benefit of the doubt here.

BookASpaceCadets · 18/02/2025 22:47

Careful, if one of them spots you, you’l lose rank as the peeper, and become the peepee.

letslaughitoff · 18/02/2025 22:48

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 18/02/2025 22:40

Why would it? They’re not visiting my house.

If there free after her visit they are welcome to come give me a service check lol.

BlondiePortz · 18/02/2025 22:48

FrillyGoat · 18/02/2025 22:34

surely no one is actually taking the OP seriously??

On here it it hard to tell most of the time

CandidClarisse · 18/02/2025 22:48

Wouldn't bother me at all. Unless you know either of the guys personally, I'd just stay out of it all.

FrazzledHippy · 18/02/2025 22:50

Unless one of the fellas is your husband, I'd just mind your business and let her crack on.

MuddyPawsIndoors · 18/02/2025 22:50

They sound like sex people.

You may have to move house OP.

Shoemadlady · 18/02/2025 22:52

They might be her brothers!? Anything. It's mine if you bloody business! If she is seeing two guys good on her! She may not be exclusive with either of them but it's absolutely none of your business.

Shoemadlady · 18/02/2025 22:54

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

What wouldn't bother any of us? The fact you don't know if she's seeing two people? They could all just be her best mates, both men could be her gay best mates, or maybe not but you need to keep your nose behind your bloody twitching curtains! It's none of your business!

Hazel665 · 18/02/2025 22:54

Fgs OP this is ridiculous. They could be her brothers for all you know.

Garlicheese · 18/02/2025 22:54

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Erm no, unless you’re sleeping with her what has it got to do with you, who she is having at her house? Also you can have men over and not be sleeping with them, it’s called friends.

Shoemadlady · 18/02/2025 22:56

You sound like you're stalking her and massively jealous.

QueSyrahSyrah · 18/02/2025 22:56

Fucking hell OP, get a hobby:

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