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Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

206 replies

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

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FrogPonds · 18/02/2025 22:56

Absolutely you should. Sound a klaxon and blast them with a chorus of Johnny Cash’s ‘Two Timin’ Woman’ fortissimo. With a dance routine.

riverislandjeans · 18/02/2025 22:57

Maybe she's being paid for her services and 'working from home'

dontforgetme · 18/02/2025 22:58

Inform the local MP.

DBSFstupid · 18/02/2025 23:02

Moodypony · 18/02/2025 22:32

Oh, definitely say something.

😂

LondonFox · 18/02/2025 23:03

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

It would bother me only if I was a third bloke and she specified we are exclusive.
Stop obessing over her or even better start flirting with her and make her all yours...

TheFormidableMrsC · 18/02/2025 23:03

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

No. Why would it bother you? It's absolutely none of your business. Good God.

Renamed · 18/02/2025 23:03

Isn’t this what neighbour hood WhatsApp is for. “Man seen going into house! Be alert!”

CorsicaDreaming · 18/02/2025 23:03

Not your circus, not your monkeys, OP...

Imbusytodaysorry · 18/02/2025 23:08

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

No!!!

CandyLeBonBon · 18/02/2025 23:09

🧐

Delphiniumandlupins · 18/02/2025 23:09

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Slight jealousy maybe.

CandyLeBonBon · 18/02/2025 23:10

You should definitely write a strongly worded letter of complaint to the parish council.

Rubiesareforeveryeah · 18/02/2025 23:11

Lucky her.

Report to the council just in case.

BitOutOfPractice · 18/02/2025 23:13

I didn’t know they had MN in 1847.

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:14

This happened to me. Turns out it was just the one lad but he was doing trials to get into MI5, practicing disguises. He was pretty good, one of them had a limp and another was 2 feet taller. Failed his geography test though and didn’t get in. Ironic really cos he’s a bus driver now.

TheQueensCousin · 18/02/2025 23:15

Well she could be seeing them on the same night as in a menage a trios!
Each to their own and I don't think it's anyone else's business to be honest.

Yellowrosessmellpetaly · 18/02/2025 23:16

Yeh, get involved they might ask you to join them.

Everything0Everywhere · 18/02/2025 23:19

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:14

This happened to me. Turns out it was just the one lad but he was doing trials to get into MI5, practicing disguises. He was pretty good, one of them had a limp and another was 2 feet taller. Failed his geography test though and didn’t get in. Ironic really cos he’s a bus driver now.

Sounds like the start of a joke!
I quite fancy the idea of trialling different disguises just to see if the neighbours start rumours 😆

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:22

Everything0Everywhere · 18/02/2025 23:19

Sounds like the start of a joke!
I quite fancy the idea of trialling different disguises just to see if the neighbours start rumours 😆

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ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 18/02/2025 23:24

OP this is very shocking behaviour. Very shocking indeed.

And quite frankly all you Mumsnetters who are treating it as a joke should be ashamed of yourselves. Have you no morals??????

OP you must inform the neighbour that she is behaving appallingly because I’m bored and this is the kind of thread I love because we must maintain standards.

Please don’t delete this thread.

Icanflyhigh · 18/02/2025 23:27

CandyLeBonBon · 18/02/2025 23:10

You should definitely write a strongly worded letter of complaint to the parish council.

You wouldn't believe what some people write to their parish council....😂😂😂😂

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:30

You’re one to talk about moral standards @ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself. We’ve all seen the state of your front step, you haven’t scrubbed that in weeks. And get some bloody nets, you might only have the one man in there but I’ve seen more of him than my fella and he’s never been one to keep his vest on either.

Notthisagainyouidiot · 18/02/2025 23:30

Maybe, under cover of darkness, nip round and paint a scarlet A on her wheelie bin.

Rubiesareforeveryeah · 18/02/2025 23:35

OP are you keeping up with the Jones's? If not, start asap

ForZanyAquaViewer · 18/02/2025 23:37

What on earth is the matter with you?! 🤣