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Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

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Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

OP posts:
whatonearthisgoingonnow · 19/02/2025 10:45

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Do you mean it bothers you?

It's very common to see multiple people at the same time, I found 3 was a good number but 4 was too much as I never got any sleep.

CandyCane457 · 19/02/2025 10:47

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

No. Why would it? Why would we care? Literally none of my business what my neighbour does.

SandlersToe · 19/02/2025 11:03

Curtain twitcher. Mind your own business!

notatinydancer · 19/02/2025 11:51

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

No.
That's if I even noticed.
I have no idea who any of my neighbours have in and out of their houses.
I can't even see my neighbour's front door unless I go outside.

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 12:13

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Why would it bother me? It does not impact on me at all.

l’d be pleased she was having a nice time.

When it comes to neighbours I’d be bothered by loud music and racists.

Whatamieventhinking · 19/02/2025 12:50

I just want to know what you actually think you can do about it?

It is a free country, and people are allowed to have as many visitors as they want in their own home? And they can even have sex with them all if they really want to.

FWIW, I have 4 regular male visitors, while having the audacity to be single. Which, if any of them I'm shagging is noone else's business!

LastNightMyPJsSavedMyLife · 19/02/2025 12:55

Oh I so hope I am the neighbour in question Op. Say something asap

3luckystars · 19/02/2025 12:56

good for her!

WearyAuldWumman · 19/02/2025 13:27

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 09:41

And she's all fur coat and no knickers (my inner Minnie Driver!)

How dare you!

My coat isn't fur.

HRTQueen · 19/02/2025 13:31

I am interested in how you would approach the subject with one of these men

Shall never find out now

Disturbia81 · 19/02/2025 13:35

Yeah she might be seeing both, who the fuck cares. Let people live their lives.
If you see something criminal then yeah report it, otherwise none of your business. Get a hobby.

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 13:35

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 10:21

Sorry l woke you up, l’ll be quieter tonight 🫢.

Twice in a week?! Where do you get the energy?!

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 13:37

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 13:35

Twice in a week?! Where do you get the energy?!

Use it or lose it!

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 13:39

WearyAuldWumman · 19/02/2025 13:27

How dare you!

My coat isn't fur.

Neither is mine! Still no knickers though! That’s if it’s OK with the OP 😀. She might lift my skirt up to have a look.

MurdoMunro · 19/02/2025 14:20

WearyAuldWumman · 19/02/2025 13:27

How dare you!

My coat isn't fur.

I bet if you had knickers they’d be leopard print tho. To go with your Bet Lynch up do and long-ash fag.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 15:17

BlondiePortz · 19/02/2025 06:04

I suppose getting some tackle out may move things along?

Or...or...OP could put on her most alluring face! (Previous-thread reference. IYKYK.)

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 15:35

Tortielady · 19/02/2025 08:29

No better than she should be, the baggage! (Me with Ena Sharples face circa 1963.)

Have you seen her making eyes at Edith's Barry from number 64? She'll get a chilly reception at the WI if she doesn't stop, the tart.

@WearyAuldWumman 🤭

Happyher · 19/02/2025 15:37

Surely your neighbour can invite who she wants to her house if they don’t cause nuisance or problems to anyone else. You seem either jealous or spiteful

JohnofWessex · 19/02/2025 16:26

A woman I once knew had several 'Gentleman Callers' as she said, one for trips to The Theatre another to put shelves up etc

Quite open about it all

CarCrashLifes · 19/02/2025 16:27

What the hell has it got to do with you?
Jealous?!

katseyes7 · 19/02/2025 17:48

My best friend's brother stays with me alternate weekends. We're friends. Nothing more. His older brother was the love of my life, he's like a brother to me.
My ex stays me occasionally, he breaks his journey from London when he goes to see his family in Cheshire. Again, nothing more. Totally platonic now.
I don't care what my neighbours think. It's no one elses business.

katseyes7 · 19/02/2025 17:54

Before my ex was my ex (if you get my drift) he used to come and stay with me up North. I had a very nosy neighbour back then.
She saw him having a smoke out by the bins, so went out, ostensibly to hang washing (a single tea towel) on the line, and asked him who he was and what he was doing (!).
He told her he was there to service the boiler.....

WearyAuldWumman · 19/02/2025 17:57

MurdoMunro · 19/02/2025 14:20

I bet if you had knickers they’d be leopard print tho. To go with your Bet Lynch up do and long-ash fag.

Leopard print is de rigueur round them there parts. Along with my massive lashes.

The fags are a bit passé. I now waft about in a billow of Kylie vape.

MurdoMunro · 19/02/2025 18:21

Ahhhh the sugary smell of tart. Perfect.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 19/02/2025 18:23

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

It has literally no impact on your life so I have no idea why it bothers you.

I assume you don't have enough going on in your own life.