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Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

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Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

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Lavenderandbrown · 19/02/2025 06:49

Making me nostalgic for my 40s when I had two men callers

27Maisie27 · 19/02/2025 06:52

Don't judge your neighbour by your own standards, love, it's not clever.

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 06:55

My aunt had a form of dementia that caused hallucinations. She was convinced the neighbour three doors down was running a knocking-shop because men of various shapes, sizes an nationalities came to her door.
Turns out she was a psychotherapist.

Iamallowedtodisagreewithyou · 19/02/2025 06:56

Yes, definitely definitely say something xx

LovelyLeitrim · 19/02/2025 06:59

Elliania · 18/02/2025 23:55

Ask if you can borrow one for an afternoon? Clearly you've not got enough to do in your life.

😆

Diningtableornot · 19/02/2025 07:47

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 23:49

Ok apologies, I've obviously jumped to conclusions, just thought they might not like it if they don't know about each other. I will just forget about it.

Good decision OP. Think about how your neighbour might react to you if you jumped to conclusions about her life and warned her visitors about her. She’d likely be furious with you whatever the back story.

Tortielady · 19/02/2025 08:29

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/02/2025 02:49

Churches aren't open Sunday evenings. RUMBLED! Brazen hussy. 🤭

No better than she should be, the baggage! (Me with Ena Sharples face circa 1963.)

MurdoMunro · 19/02/2025 09:37

My husband’s gone out with the dog and I’m waiting by the window for my parcel delivery. Gonna open the door with my come hither face on and invite him in for a cuppa. Will make sure he’s gone before husband and dog get back then spend the whole day monitoring Facebook instead of working. Hopefully someone will have captured the whole thing on their door camera.

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 09:41

Tortielady · 19/02/2025 08:29

No better than she should be, the baggage! (Me with Ena Sharples face circa 1963.)

And she's all fur coat and no knickers (my inner Minnie Driver!)

KaySam · 19/02/2025 09:46

My next door neighbour is having the time of her life (loudly ) with a man and also a woman not at the same time though.

her moaning did wake us up but we just went downstairs for a brew,it’s none of our business.

LunaNorth · 19/02/2025 09:50

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 09:41

And she's all fur coat and no knickers (my inner Minnie Driver!)

I think you mean Minnie Caldwell 🙂

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 09:54

LunaNorth · 19/02/2025 09:50

I think you mean Minnie Caldwell 🙂

Yes I do! Dear god I am an idiot...
I have posted wrong names on 2 threads in the last 2 days. WTF is wrong with me?!!
It's age - I have the memory of a deceased mayfly at the moment
apologies everyone!

LunaNorth · 19/02/2025 09:57

ItShouldntHappenToMeYet · 19/02/2025 09:54

Yes I do! Dear god I am an idiot...
I have posted wrong names on 2 threads in the last 2 days. WTF is wrong with me?!!
It's age - I have the memory of a deceased mayfly at the moment
apologies everyone!

I have a lovely mental picture of Minnie Driver in the Rovers Return nursing a milk stout.

chelseahealyslips · 19/02/2025 09:59

OP, one or the other of them may just be there to talk about her cars extended warranty.

mrsh2025 · 19/02/2025 10:00

Oh this is fabulous... My best friend is a male see him almost every day for glass wine or watch a film. Another friend often visits (male).... AND best friend often turns up with your mutual male friends. God I hope my neighbours think I'm upto all sorts of naughties instead of the boring bugger I assumed they all thought I was

crackfoxy · 19/02/2025 10:01

🤣

CuteEasterBunny · 19/02/2025 10:04

Get a life and mind your own business. So what if she is?

Trunksarebetter · 19/02/2025 10:08

I just came from a thread where a person was talking about seeing a man she knows out with his other woman and then didn’t tell his wife, who she is friendly with. I was sat thinking to myself, ‘Who wouldn’t tell the poor partner of someone being cheated on?’

Someone with boundaries? And who has the good sense to know that, unless you’re 100% certain of the facts, it would be a really bad idea to throw a grenade into someone’s life?

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 10:19

Trunksarebetter · 19/02/2025 10:08

I just came from a thread where a person was talking about seeing a man she knows out with his other woman and then didn’t tell his wife, who she is friendly with. I was sat thinking to myself, ‘Who wouldn’t tell the poor partner of someone being cheated on?’

Someone with boundaries? And who has the good sense to know that, unless you’re 100% certain of the facts, it would be a really bad idea to throw a grenade into someone’s life?

It’s a bad idea if you do know the facts as well.

StarlightLady · 19/02/2025 10:21

KaySam · 19/02/2025 09:46

My next door neighbour is having the time of her life (loudly ) with a man and also a woman not at the same time though.

her moaning did wake us up but we just went downstairs for a brew,it’s none of our business.

Sorry l woke you up, l’ll be quieter tonight 🫢.

CraftyNavySeal · 19/02/2025 10:23
Arrested Development GIF

So?

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 19/02/2025 10:29

I think you should have a word with her... tell her you think she's a slag bag.
Report back ok? I have a super quiet work day....

Nothatgingerpirate · 19/02/2025 10:35

What is it to you?
Are you jealous?
🤭

billybear · 19/02/2025 10:35

they could be relations or anything work men quoting for a job,

Rubiesareforeveryeah · 19/02/2025 10:44

Twinstudy · 18/02/2025 22:40

You need to alert the church elders immediately

Different religion you are talking about, church elders wouldn't care

😊