Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

[Neighbourwoes2]

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

Curtain twitcher.🙈🙈🙈

Depending on your situation, yes I'd say something. I'd subtly let the best looking one know I'd be up for a bit of how's your father.

Alternatively, if neither are your cup of tea or you're not that way inclined, would you mind asking how she manages. Asking for a friend. She could do an AMA. Call it public service

@Neighbourwoes2 how's your embroidery, do you have any scarlet thread to hand?

No of course not. Why does it bother you?

@stonefromthehenge I haven't heard the phrase 'how's your father' in years 😆

Churches aren't open Sunday evenings. RUMBLED! Brazen hussy. 🤭

I don’t spend much time watching my neighbours comings and goings. I doubt I’d even notice…

They might not be having any how's your father. They might be having some jiggery-pokery. Or some rumpy-pumpy. Or some hanky-panky. Or they might be piercing the hogshead. You never know.

Unless the two men are your sons or your husband and brother you don’t need to say a word.
The two men may think they are her one and only and be devastated if they knew or may know about each other and not care less. either way this comes under the heading of “not your problem”
mind your own beeswax

I can't understand what leg the OP thinks she has to stand on. It's hardly illegal to have two male visitors. Even if she had a rotating cast of ten FWBs, what on earth does the OP think she could do about it? It's not illegal to have visitors!

Or is she getting at the women possibly charging for sex? Is that where all this is coming from? She did say OK, maybe I've got the wrong end of the stick (paraphrasing) when others said the men could be anyone.

I only clicked on this to read the comments. They didn’t disappoint!

It's mind boggling to me that your mind has not only automatically jumped to this conclusion but furthermore had a possible plan of action!

So which one is the original and which is the one being cheated on, if this is actually happening

So which would you tackle first?

flaunts brazenness

Perhaps a come hither look would be sufficient as opposed to "tackling?" 😉

Please say something to her/them.
And then please please report back with what the response was. I'll be on tenterhooks here 😁

😀🙌🏻

Lucky her.

Are you missing out?

I suppose getting some tackle out may move things along?

Once I had a neighbor who we called "Church Lady" (after the character on the old Saturday Night Live show in the US). She tattled on me to my husband when I stepped outside and smoked two cigarettes, after I was supposed to have given them up.

Then she tried to make me cut my grass because her parents were coming to visit and she didn't think my yard looked tidy enough to please them.

I bet she'd know how to handle this...

The right decision.

For starters, you don’t know what is going on, secondly it is nothing to do with anyone else. Finally not everyone is in or wants to be in a monogamous relationship. She might be dating.

l have quite a few male visitors but l don’t shag them all. But keep tweaking the curtains you might catch them both staying over on the same night. 😉

Holy moses, I've had 2 male friends call to see me, I'm single, not sleeping with and no intention of.

While this is probably great gossip fodder among the neighbours I would mmob.

Birdwatching v boring in winter as they've all goorrn saarrf fer their holibobs, so OP is neighbour watching to get value from his/her binoculars.

Could you do some scrubbing at my house please. I'll warn the neighbours that another woman will be entering the house, just in case...