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Think my neighbour is seeing 2 guys at the same time

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Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:30

I've seen 2 different guys visit my female neighbours house regularly in the last month. I'm assuming she's sleeping with them as it's in the evening. Not sure if they know about each other..
Should I say anything to them? Or would that be ridiculous?

OP posts:
Iloveyoubut · 18/02/2025 23:39

It would be beyond the beyond of every bit of ridiculousness in all the land! Kinda want you to though just for the 18 part fall out thread that’d follow.

Properjob · 18/02/2025 23:42

Hi neighbour!! 👋

CorduroySituation · 18/02/2025 23:43

Make sure she's dragged from the house naked, branded with the red letter A for adultery and have her stoned to death.

It's only neighbourly to do so.

ArcticFunky · 18/02/2025 23:43

Men and women can be friends? When I lived alone I'd often have two male friends over separately. We weren't shagging? I was single too back then so wasn't could have but I wasn't. I'd have found it so weird if a neighbour approached them! Don't make wild assumptions about people's lives.

sandyhappypeople · 18/02/2025 23:44

Like, what would you say? ...

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 18/02/2025 23:44

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:30

You’re one to talk about moral standards @ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself. We’ve all seen the state of your front step, you haven’t scrubbed that in weeks. And get some bloody nets, you might only have the one man in there but I’ve seen more of him than my fella and he’s never been one to keep his vest on either.

🤯 What a cheek! I am a very regular scrubber thank you very much. I put my heart and soul into being a scrubber 🤯

hoiks bosom

(so, I just want to check, it’s just the one man you’ve seen in my house, right?)

OwlInTheOak · 18/02/2025 23:45

You'd end up looking ridiculous 😂 my brother visits in the evening quite often and sleeps over if having a drink.

suburberphobe · 18/02/2025 23:46

You need a new hobby.

Bluesandwhites · 18/02/2025 23:48

@Neighbourwoes2
You need to change your user name, as in this instance, it wouldn't be "neighbour woes" but neighbour joy !

Get a life

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 18/02/2025 23:48

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 22:38

Ok so it wouldn't bother any of you then?

Nope! And if it bothers you that much, I’d suggest getting a life.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 18/02/2025 23:48

Mind your own business. Who says they don't know already?

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 23:49

Ok apologies, I've obviously jumped to conclusions, just thought they might not like it if they don't know about each other. I will just forget about it.

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Ramblethroughthebrambles · 18/02/2025 23:49

It's absolutely none of your business. But do keep us all posted 😉

MurdoMunro · 18/02/2025 23:49

ThisIsMyYearToFindMyself · 18/02/2025 23:44

🤯 What a cheek! I am a very regular scrubber thank you very much. I put my heart and soul into being a scrubber 🤯

hoiks bosom

(so, I just want to check, it’s just the one man you’ve seen in my house, right?)

Yeah, your Keith, looks like Les Dawson with ginger hair? Saw him hiding behind the bins next to @Neighbourwoes2 house last Wednesday.

ticktickticktickBOOM · 18/02/2025 23:51

I have 2 brothers and 3 life long platonic male friends, and guess what - they all visit me in the evening because we are all AT WORK during the day.

Nothing to see here OP.

Get a life.

PinkArt · 18/02/2025 23:51

Definitely tell them. Rather than waiting for their alternative bonk fests it might be quicker to get an article into the local paper?

Toddlerhelpplease123 · 18/02/2025 23:52

How exciting.

This reminds me of my uni days in a basement flat.

The girl above had a couple of suitors which my DP could identify by noise pattern 🫣

And then it blew up one day. Suitors in the front garden having a showdown.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 18/02/2025 23:53

This is why I wish I could live far away from other people. In what universe was it even something you thought about for a second? Other people's life isn't your TV soap opera.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 18/02/2025 23:53

People do this all the time. You are just nosy and noticed.

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 18/02/2025 23:53

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 23:49

Ok apologies, I've obviously jumped to conclusions, just thought they might not like it if they don't know about each other. I will just forget about it.

But why do you care? Even if, for arguments sake, she is seeing two blokes and they won’t like it. It’s not your concern. Do you have that little to occupy your time? Could you redirect this energy and time into volunteering or something?

Cabella · 18/02/2025 23:54

Chuchoter · 18/02/2025 22:39

Knock on her door and give her a stern talking to. She'll be very grateful that you've made her see sense.

Does anyone remember "Neighbours" episode, going back to when the twins were in it, they had only been in Ramsey St 2 days and one of the neighbours, think it was Fay, accused them of running a house of ill repute, and they were on witness protection !

Lostworlds · 18/02/2025 23:54

Sorry but definitely none of your business! You’re jumping to conclusions that she’s sleeping with them, it could be a family member, friend, colleague or maybe she is seeing 2 people at the same time- it doesn’t really matter because it’s not your business.

Don’t get involved, don’t say anything.

Elliania · 18/02/2025 23:55

Ask if you can borrow one for an afternoon? Clearly you've not got enough to do in your life.

MuddyPawsIndoors · 18/02/2025 23:56

Do you never have male visitors in the evening OP?

Or are you worried they all turn into lusty, sex crazed kink machines at the stroke of 6pm?

This is why I haven't paid my window cleaner for 6 months. If only he'd knock before 5.

TheFormidableMrsC · 19/02/2025 00:00

Neighbourwoes2 · 18/02/2025 23:49

Ok apologies, I've obviously jumped to conclusions, just thought they might not like it if they don't know about each other. I will just forget about it.

But even if that is the case, what business is it of yours? I mean you've massively jumped to conclusions here. You don't know who these people are. So weird.