Listening to James O’Brien today made me think about my stance of ‘un-unbothered-mess’ about the actual blow job given it’s completely in character for BJ. He brought up Monica Lewinsky, Matt Hancock and the scrutinisation AR got for being too distracting by being a woman and he’s got a point.
These aren’t standards from a by-gone age, this is something that’s only not completely and utterly shocking because it’s Boris. Anyone else, past or future, would be hauled over the coals and out on their ear.
JOB also had a really moving caller who pointed out that this incident took place before BJ’s wife’s cancer diagnosis and carried on throughout her treatment and recovery. The caller described how her cancer treatment made her feel vulnerable and unsurprisingly not in the least bit sexy. BJ’s affair, that by then everyone knew about, was cruel. He didn’t stop or even end it with his wife, he carried on humiliating her at her most vulnerable.