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BBC breaking news alert tonight

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Trumplosttheelection · 10/03/2021 20:55

I'm not saying what this relates to and I'd ask everybody who knows not to say either for obvious legal reasons but I just wanted to post that I feel v sad about the news tonight.
I know there are posters who will be personally affected and just wanted to say my thoughts are with all who've loved and lost tonight. I wish it was otherwise.

ThanksThanksThanks

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SakuraEdenSwan1 · 10/03/2021 22:05

Awful sad news, very upset reading it, poor girl.

DavidsSchitt · 10/03/2021 22:07

"The op was simply sending a message of condolence to the posters who have commented previously on other threads, who knew SE.
I really don't know why anyone who didn't know what she meant didn't just bypass the thread, rather than coming on and being argumentative in some way"

@Ashard20

Maybe because she wasn't simply doing that. The thread itself can cause distress, certainly encourages unwanted speculation and is completely insensitive.

I mean, just look at the way you've turned her name into initials like that. So crass, lazy and potentially upsetting.

LazyDaisy22 · 10/03/2021 22:07

Such awful news after hoping she would be found safely.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

Haffiana · 10/03/2021 22:07

The whole jury can be dismissed and replaced. It happens. Trials have been delayed for this very reason.

Please just link to any trial that was stopped because of speculation on MN. Otherwise stop being ridiculous.

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:08

scalp
Your little “mission” is redundant

Behave yourself. What a pathetic little comment.
People can obviously discuss the news but wild accusations & speculation is monitored for the reasons I have stated.

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:09

@Haffiana

The whole jury can be dismissed and replaced. It happens. Trials have been delayed for this very reason.

Please just link to any trial that was stopped because of speculation on MN. Otherwise stop being ridiculous.

Are you a lawyer?
scalphelp · 10/03/2021 22:10

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Lushers · 10/03/2021 22:11

I'm in tears about this tonight. I've been praying for good news but felt it was
Going to be bad.
Another women dies at the hands of a man.

When will this terrorism women face from
Men ever stop?

Clymene · 10/03/2021 22:11

I don't know about any threads that were started today but the one that was running overnight was a really revolting combination of web sleuthing, wild speculation and complaints that the story wasn't exciting enough. Along with a really distasteful bit of fiction about the area where SE went missing.

I'd like to think that most MNers can just post to show their concern and support for SE's family and friends without being deleted again. Thanks

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:11

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Haffiana · 10/03/2021 22:12

Are you a lawyer?

I am a poster on a social media thread. Have you found that case yet?

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:13

@Clymene

I don't know about any threads that were started today but the one that was running overnight was a really revolting combination of web sleuthing, wild speculation and complaints that the story wasn't exciting enough. Along with a really distasteful bit of fiction about the area where SE went missing.

I'd like to think that most MNers can just post to show their concern and support for SE's family and friends without being deleted again. Thanks

This! Absolutely agree.
TheFairyCaravan · 10/03/2021 22:13

It’s such awful, awful news. I feel sick to my stomach. Her poor family and friends Flowers

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:13

@Haffiana

Are you a lawyer?

I am a poster on a social media thread. Have you found that case yet?

Google.
DebbieGetsTheJobDone · 10/03/2021 22:14

The content of this thread is of very poor taste

Florawest · 10/03/2021 22:14

Really sad news, just going about her business, condolences to her family and friends.

Was really hoping for a good outcome, so sad it wasn't rest in peace.

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:15

Why in earth would I do your research for you Haffiana?
Believe what you want to believe.

Nicknacky · 10/03/2021 22:15

@Haffiana Is your desire for gossip and speculation so great that you don’t care that subsequent trials could be compromised by what is posted online?

The jurors (if it gets to that stage) will be made up of people who read the internet. Let’s not risk jeopardising justice.

DavidsSchitt · 10/03/2021 22:15

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NFLwidow · 10/03/2021 22:16

She should have been headline news from the moment she went missing. Instead the focus was on the circus that is Harry and Meghan/piers.
RIP Sarah

HeathIns · 10/03/2021 22:18

Nicky & David
Thank you both.
MNHQ will hopefully keep an eye on what is said on here.

Carolina24 · 10/03/2021 22:18

It’s so awful. So desperately sad, so frightening, so sickening.

We all know women like Sarah. We are women like Sarah. It’s just unbearable to think of how frightened she must have been. Feel so helpless and despairing about it.

UhtredRagnarson · 10/03/2021 22:18

@NFLwidow

She should have been headline news from the moment she went missing. Instead the focus was on the circus that is Harry and Meghan/piers. RIP Sarah
Realistically that wouldnt have happened even in the absence of M&H. It doesn’t happen with any missing person case. There’s no reason this case should have been any different at the start than every other.
YukoandHiro · 10/03/2021 22:19

It will be deleted as random speculation can be in contempt of court due to risk of prejudicing a future trial and Mumsnet as the host will be considered publisher in those circs and could face corporate prosecution if a trial collapsed as a result of a juror taking into account something they had seen on here rather than in the court room.

This is why BBC coverage has far fewer details then some other (less risk averse, shall we say) outlets.