I’m a professional tantric masseuse AMA

[beatrix1234]

Female, 44, with a background in massage therapy, decided to go into tantric massage 18 years ago. I’ve been doing it ever since and happy to answer any questions you may have. Beatrix.

What’s the difference between tantric and something like a Swedish massage?

Do you know Brian from Hull?

Do you know Brian from Hull?

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Just what I was about to ask! 😂

In fact, are you Brian from Hull?

Probably married to him. Cosy family "business".

🤣 this will be fun

Who are your clients? Is it usually men who book in, women, or couples?

Tantric massage is a head to toe full body bodywork done on both men and women, it's combination of different styles, Swedish, deep tissue, lomi lomi etc... It usually involves breath work and chakra balancing. It has a strong sensual element to it, sometimes it involves a happy ending and sometimes it doesn't, it depends on a variety of factors. Some practitioners offer long sessions with some yoga, meditation and rituals (I don't).

Blimey. I've never been for a massage like that. If you deliver "happy endings" do you consider yourself a sex worker?

I've never heard from him, is he famous?

What made you go into tantric massage over other kinds of sex work? Is it seen as more respectable, or does it pay better? Safer working conditions?

So you sell happy endings for a living? Congratulations your parents must be proud.

Google makes Tantric massage sound like a sexual "service". Would you agree?

Infamous 🤣

Tantric practitioners usually work with both men and women, I work on both. I don't work on couples because 1) I only have 2 hands and 2) I find it a very complicated dynamic, it's very difficult and I'm not properly trained.

Very famous round these part.
off to search classics

What matters to me is what I think, don't really care what my parents think, honestly.

As I said tantric massage involves a happy ending half of the times, so yes, I would consider myself within the scope of sex work.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/mumsnet_classics/1729276-Yoni-Vaginal-Massage?reply=38401486

Let me introduce you to Brian from Hull.

the name changes are stupendous (of course, it’s Mumsnet)

I became a massage therapist long time ago, then I developed an interest in tantra, I took many courses, worked for a few known practitioners and eventually opened my own practice. It pays more than a strictly therapeutic massage with no sensual elements to it that is true. I feel pretty safe, although I do have quite a few safety procedures and filters in place to ensure my safety. I throughly interview people on the phone before giving them a booking as to make sure we're on the same page. I only take 30% of my calls.

I think sex work is grim. Did you not have any other skills/talents?

Good for Brian, and I wish him the best in life. It's not easy for a male tantric masseur to be popular. I do know of a couple who've been a long time in the business and do well (I don't think "Brian" is one of them).

Do you do Yoni massage?

When you say full body massage and happy endings do you mean you masterbate your clients?
I haven't lived enough obviously if I need to ask 😊