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I’m a professional tantric masseuse AMA

210 replies

beatrix1234 · 24/08/2023 12:10

Female, 44, with a background in massage therapy, decided to go into tantric massage 18 years ago. I’ve been doing it ever since and happy to answer any questions you may have. Beatrix.

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BloominFlower · 28/08/2023 15:34

What’s the difference between tantric and something like a Swedish massage?

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 28/08/2023 15:37

Do you know Brian from Hull?

DrunkenHandstand · 28/08/2023 15:38

Do you know Brian from Hull?

🤣

GaladrielHiggins · 28/08/2023 15:38

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 28/08/2023 15:37

Do you know Brian from Hull?

Just what I was about to ask! 😂

Justcallmebebes · 28/08/2023 15:40

In fact, are you Brian from Hull? Grin

HelpMeGetThrough · 28/08/2023 16:05

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 28/08/2023 15:37

Do you know Brian from Hull?

Probably married to him. Cosy family "business".

DobbyTheHouseElk · 28/08/2023 16:07

🤣 this will be fun

Saschka · 28/08/2023 16:08

Who are your clients? Is it usually men who book in, women, or couples?

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:09

BloominFlower · 28/08/2023 15:34

What’s the difference between tantric and something like a Swedish massage?

Tantric massage is a head to toe full body bodywork done on both men and women, it's combination of different styles, Swedish, deep tissue, lomi lomi etc... It usually involves breath work and chakra balancing. It has a strong sensual element to it, sometimes it involves a happy ending and sometimes it doesn't, it depends on a variety of factors. Some practitioners offer long sessions with some yoga, meditation and rituals (I don't).

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bryceQ · 28/08/2023 16:10

Blimey. I've never been for a massage like that. If you deliver "happy endings" do you consider yourself a sex worker?

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:10

Justcallmebebes · 28/08/2023 15:40

In fact, are you Brian from Hull? Grin

I've never heard from him, is he famous?

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Saschka · 28/08/2023 16:11

What made you go into tantric massage over other kinds of sex work? Is it seen as more respectable, or does it pay better? Safer working conditions?

NotaCoolMum · 28/08/2023 16:11

So you sell happy endings for a living? Congratulations your parents must be proud.

Scousemousey · 28/08/2023 16:11

Google makes Tantric massage sound like a sexual "service". Would you agree?

Saschka · 28/08/2023 16:11

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:10

I've never heard from him, is he famous?

Infamous 🤣

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:12

Saschka · 28/08/2023 16:08

Who are your clients? Is it usually men who book in, women, or couples?

Tantric practitioners usually work with both men and women, I work on both. I don't work on couples because 1) I only have 2 hands and 2) I find it a very complicated dynamic, it's very difficult and I'm not properly trained.

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BlueMoe · 28/08/2023 16:13

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:10

I've never heard from him, is he famous?

Very famous round these part.
off to search classics

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:14

NotaCoolMum · 28/08/2023 16:11

So you sell happy endings for a living? Congratulations your parents must be proud.

What matters to me is what I think, don't really care what my parents think, honestly.

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beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:16

bryceQ · 28/08/2023 16:10

Blimey. I've never been for a massage like that. If you deliver "happy endings" do you consider yourself a sex worker?

As I said tantric massage involves a happy ending half of the times, so yes, I would consider myself within the scope of sex work.

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beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:21

Saschka · 28/08/2023 16:11

What made you go into tantric massage over other kinds of sex work? Is it seen as more respectable, or does it pay better? Safer working conditions?

I became a massage therapist long time ago, then I developed an interest in tantra, I took many courses, worked for a few known practitioners and eventually opened my own practice. It pays more than a strictly therapeutic massage with no sensual elements to it that is true. I feel pretty safe, although I do have quite a few safety procedures and filters in place to ensure my safety. I throughly interview people on the phone before giving them a booking as to make sure we're on the same page. I only take 30% of my calls.

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DrunkenHandstand · 28/08/2023 16:24

I think sex work is grim. Did you not have any other skills/talents?

beatrix1234 · 28/08/2023 16:25

BlueMoe · 28/08/2023 16:17

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/mumsnet_classics/1729276-Yoni-Vaginal-Massage?reply=38401486

Let me introduce you to Brian from Hull.

the name changes are stupendous (of course, it’s Mumsnet)

Good for Brian, and I wish him the best in life. It's not easy for a male tantric masseur to be popular. I do know of a couple who've been a long time in the business and do well (I don't think "Brian" is one of them).

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MokaEfti · 28/08/2023 16:30

Do you do Yoni massage?

Iris1976 · 28/08/2023 16:35

When you say full body massage and happy endings do you mean you masterbate your clients?
I haven't lived enough obviously if I need to ask 😊