I’m a professional tantric masseuse AMA

[beatrix1234]

Female, 44, with a background in massage therapy, decided to go into tantric massage 18 years ago. I’ve been doing it ever since and happy to answer any questions you may have. Beatrix.

I would say 70%of my clients are men and 30% are women. 50% of people want a happy ending and 50% not.

@Donotfeedthebirds How did you make money during Covid?

I had been filing my taxes as a self employed massage therapist for many years so when lockdowns happened I was entitled to the covid grants for small businesses where I was granted with 80% of my earnings. It really save my "derriere" (as you say in French). Thank you British government 🙏

No, I haven't, far from it. You're frothing at the mouth at OP's choice of profession and you're falling over yourself in your bid to make your feelings known. Bless you.

You did completely miss the point the poster was making I’m afraid.

There’s a lot of very naive posters on here. And men. Lots of men.

Sharong anyone?

I'm self employed, I don't do over the 80K tax bracket (I wish! 😂) I don't have the need to employ security and I've never had a problem in 17 years (touches wood).
Touches wood 😂😂😂

Excuse my pun 😂😂😂

Hate to tell those that think the op made a mistake saying sharong....

It is an item of clothing it's a cross between a skirt and a sarong

Do you offer women happy endings?

Too funny!

Sorry, have already answered this question a couple of times. All info above 😉

Oooo say it!

Brian from Hull. 🤣🤣🤣

Not an obscure MN dinosaur reference then

“mostly through diaphragmatic breathing”
can you elaborate on this - deep breathing and relaxation sounds like bliss

I don’t know him, but judging by the above posts that he seems to be quite popular on MN 😉

Do you actually know what Tantra is?
It's history & philosophy?
Have you read any tantric texts, I assume at the very least you speak Sanskrit and/or Pali.

Sometimes i despair.
Please have some respect for a very misunderstood ancient religious doctrine.

How did you get into it? Sorry if that's already been asked. No judgement here at all, I think it's really interesting and different - I had no idea that your profession existed until the recent thread that's been mentioned here a few times!

It is, tantric massage is extremely relaxing, more than a strictly non sensual therapeutic massage (my professional opinion after 17 years doing this), it dives you into a state of much deeper relaxation and bliss, it really enhances your dopamine levels. Many clients have been known to fall asleep on my table. Regarding diaphragmatic breathing techniques you can look them up on you tube if you want to learn, some good videos there.

Oh lord, you clearly don't speak Sanskrit. I've just seen how you have written Cakra.
I give up. 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I would love to know who taught you how to do this. Calling it tantra is laughable !!!

Yes I know what tantra is, yes I’ve read its history and philosophy. No I don’t speak Sanskrit by any means, but this would be a very long debate that would need it’s own thread I’m afraid (in why the term has been hijacked by western practitioners I mean).

But women are paying too so they sre equally vile.

Pleased to hear that OP, we all need to earn a living somehow. Good luck to you.

This thread has taught me that some people judge so unbelievably much, to the point they have no idea what's going on in the world around them.

Trying to insult OP by calling her a prostitute who wanks off men for a living is so just petty and low. What she does actually requires a lot of skill and can be a beautiful transformative treatment, often helping victims of sexual abuse to overcome their trauma.

And people commenting that men who pay for sex are vile, why aren't women who pay for sex vile? Other prejudices are also abundant on this thread 😂

I'm glad you do something you enjoy OP.

It’s chakra, must have been a typo. I write fast sometimes 🙏

Which branch of tantra do you follow?
I'm utterly fascinated!
Do let me know.