I’m a professional tantric masseuse AMA

[beatrix1234]

Female, 44, with a background in massage therapy, decided to go into tantric massage 18 years ago. I’ve been doing it ever since and happy to answer any questions you may have. Beatrix.

No, it's not chakra.
This is the westernised form. You surely know. It's cakra.
Ca in Sanskrit & Pali is pronounced Ch.
if you really understand what a cakra was you would get the spelling correct.

You’ve taken the very words out of my mouth.

I actually find it offensive.

@Mirabai me too!!

I think the question is why it’s been hijacked by sex workers.

Tenner says Aleister Crowley.

@Mirabai 🤣

I KNEW this was around somewhere.

I’ve just found Mrs Brian from Hull. https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/1730115-to-be-upset-that-virtually-the-whole-of-MN-are-mocking-my-husband?page=1

Not everybody who practises tantra is a sex worker, plenty out there who don’t. You should be offended by them too.

Do you think some of your clients purposefully come to you for the happy ending and are prepared to go through the motions of the massage as just a means to an end?

Can you tell the difference between genuine clients and those that just want some sexual gratification?

Oh I’m offended by all of them - but labelling sex work tantric is the most absurd of the lot.

Let’s be clear no-one you’re referring to “practices” tantra - they haven’t even the remotest idea what it is - they just have sex with bells on and call it mystic.

A tantric massage is quite a long and expensive session so why pay so much for going through all the “motions” when you can get a quick wank (if that’s what you want) for a quarter of the price at your local parlour?

yes I can tell right away if someone is looking for sexual gratification or a proper tantric massage. I usually weed out the first as I go through a lengthy phone interview with them.

No I didn't. Perhaps do some research and read the PP's posts before YOU completely miss the point. Her 'point' is blatantly obvious.

So much judgement on here. Please ignore it. X

I’ve never had sex with bells with any of my clients, I don’t know of any tantra practitioner who does that either, but you’re entitled to be offended if you’re an academic in the field. I won’t blame you. I do agree that the term had been somehow hijacked by the western world. Again, this would be a very lengthy discussion with its own thread.

I second that.
It's not AIBU, it's AMA. Some of the posters are just here for a bunfight and clearly have no knowledge of what constitutes a tantric massage, whether they agree with it or not. If it benefits those that need it, there is a need for it.

No I didn't. Perhaps do some research and read the PP's posts before YOU completely miss the point. Her 'point' is blatantly obvious.

Whoosh! 🤣

Exactly. But the self-righteous lot just have to preach their judgy opinions.

@beatrix1234 Bells was not literal 🤣 “with bells on”

Agree.
I have known people who have done this type of work, often they begin as sex workers in the true sense and then move to something more spiritual or holistic, they take care of the whole person not just the body.

The overall sense is that they are caring and genuinely interested in helping others and have often not had the best start in life themselves so have helped themself as they are helping others by learning and caring and not judging. They give. Far too many on here wouldn't know how.

They give. Far too many on here wouldn't know how.

😅

A prime example, thank you.

Feeling pretty innocent over here!

What exactly is a tantric massage?
Is it just a massage with some sexual touching? Where does the spiritual element come into it?

Can you explain more clearly?

A prime example, thank you.

🤣🤣🤣

My god there are some immature posters on here.

People are triggered because their husbands used tge services of tantric massage therapists and gave orgasm but not with their wives.