I’m a professional tantric masseuse AMA

[beatrix1234]

Female, 44, with a background in massage therapy, decided to go into tantric massage 18 years ago. I’ve been doing it ever since and happy to answer any questions you may have. Beatrix.

oh stop

At the risk of exposing myself as being sexually naiive, is it possible for somebody to happy ending without you having to er, manual handle them rigorously?

What do you wear while ... performing? Is it a dress and heels set up or more of a lab coat and loafers look?

Yes, it's very common, many of my clients will get an orgasm without me touching their genitals.

You can't give a massage with heels! I work barefoot. 😂I use a normal tunic, sometimes a Sharong.

A sharong?

You can only buy em in Essex

Can’t stop laughing 😂lol

Does the sarong/sharong stay on?

I think you have misunderstood my question.

Fair play to you OP, we all have to earn a living.

How did you make money during Covid?

In theory OP I can’t see an issue with this (some of the vipers are frothing at the mouth over you being a sex worker) but I’m curious as to whether you wanted to offer the happy endings bit. Is it because you’re paid more?

I have slight visions of the League of Gentlemen similar endeavour but that wasn’t tantric!

Do you have female clients too?

I don’t know any women that wouldn’t know the item of clothing is called a sarong. 🤔

I can’t get over how many often trafficked women (mostly from Far east though I guess it could be anywhere these days) have set up a masseuse and offered happy endings as that’s what their clients want. Loads of massage parlours near me I’m sure offer it on the quiet (easily spotted).

To be honest if the above is considered prostitution then at least it’s in a private room and not sex workers on the streets.

What OP is doing, yes it’s partly sex work but if she’s happy with it why not?

A best friend of mine worked for a while as a brothel’s maid just answering phones and making appointments and she got to know one of the prostitutes very well and I met her a few times.85: the oldest profession or one of them in the book ffs!

I used to be the judgiest bitch on earth re lap dancing etc but changed my stance on it over the years, if it’s not harming people then I can’t see an issue with it. Definitely more controls and laws should be in place in all these areas though, legalise brothels etc.

What matters deep down is what I think of myself, not what others label me as

I'm sure that many a psychopath feels the same. 😄

Do you prefer wanking off men or woman and do you do oral too?

Why so nasty? It's an ask me anything thread not a bitch fest

I have 3 questions:

When you meet someone outside of your job and they ask what you do, do you just tell them that you're a masseuse? What if they say they're looking for someone and ask if they can have an appointment? Do you just tell them "I specifically do tantric massasage so if that's what you're after I'll book you in."? Because I could imagine that could be quite an awkward conversation with old Beryl from down the road who's looking for someone to help with her stiff back muscles.

Re: the latex gloves for the genitals. Presumably you don't have gloves on for the rest of the body. How do you go from non-glove wearing massage to snapping the gloves on? Is there a conversation about it? How do you actually phrase it?

Have you ever had a client who misunderstood what tantric massage was? And got a bit of a surprise?

@SuperLoudPoppingAction

That was going to be my question! 🤣🤣

I don’t understand why most the posters are being so vile to the OP.
She is obviously not being exploited so what is so wrong with her choice of profession?
And yes, I am female.

Roffle.

I do use throw away latex gloves when working on genitals

Don't we all, ducky.

I want to know more about the big umbrella. 💦

Me too. Don't quite understand why some people are taking a personal dislike.