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NC Dignity Club part 7: always wear your invisible crown

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Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 15:09:36

A thread for anyone wanting support with going or staying in No Contact. No judgement, just lots of support. Warning: this thread can seriously increase your willpower and self esteem!

Recommend also visiting website from Natalie Lue, Baggage Reclaim, or reading her book The No Contact Rule.

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 15:22:15

Do the give in seshi you are a strong woman and you can do this. We'll all come to the gig with you, we can all squash up inside one big overcoat and pretend to be one person for the spare ticket

Teensandfuture Fri 23-Feb-18 15:22:36

Oops nearly lost you all.
No time to read or update as its manic at work but marking my place xx

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 15:23:11

Hi teens

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 16:18:18

considers whether fit to wear crown, invisible or not?
shrugs. pokes around and finds old wedding tiara.
tries it on. its tarnished. so am i.
But hey, it is the nearest thing i have.
Jams in on and holds head up, nice and high.
whether I look or feel stupid, i can wear it in here with you lot and that is priceless.

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 16:21:03

thanks, Belonger for opening the ballroom/baggage reclaim area! flowers

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 Fri 23-Feb-18 16:36:08

Hi all. So proud to be part of this thread. You're all brilliant flowers

Itsalottery Fri 23-Feb-18 16:41:27

Hello all. Great title belonger . I have a busy weekend despite feeling ill and not wanting it but will catch up with you all next week. Keep strong all.

MyGastIsFlabbered Fri 23-Feb-18 16:57:11

Just checking in so I can find you when I need you.

NK1cf53daaX127805d4fd5 Fri 23-Feb-18 17:38:47

Thought this was a nice one to start the weekend

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 17:40:34

That's lovely nk

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 17:43:57

You look great in that tiara basseting

I picture my crown as a medieval type one, quite simple and strong and battle-ready, not covered in jewels particularly. It's a kick ass, My Kingdom type crown.

gingergenius Fri 23-Feb-18 17:44:53

Hello!! 👋🏻

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 17:45:42

Come on in ginger!

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 18:08:14

well if we can design our own, here is MY kickass crown:

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 18:09:21

Cant fall off you see wink

I'd LOVE to get that done and wave my bum in his face! [classy...]

Zoo33 Fri 23-Feb-18 18:11:01

Hi guys. @Basseting please do it! You'll be an inspiration to all of us!

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 18:11:45

just before I kick his boney elderly arse that is... grin

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 18:13:11

Mine's like this

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 18:14:03

Sorry you're feeling ill itsa, get well soon

Basseting Fri 23-Feb-18 18:27:25

Belonger now that i like.
(looks like you could use it underarm as well if necessary, better than some daft tiara!)
no idea where vicious thoughts are coming from but hey ho!

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 18:30:11

That's what I thought basseting I could do some excellent damage with the spiky bits if I needed to. A crown that doubles as a weapon...

MyGastIsFlabbered Fri 23-Feb-18 18:35:22

I'm weakening, kidding myself we can be just friends. Truth is I'd rather have him as a friend than not at all but it never works out does it?

Belonger Fri 23-Feb-18 18:48:10

It will just drag out the pain I'm afraid

gettingthereshopefully Fri 23-Feb-18 19:19:07

What a fabulous bunch of crown wearers you all are! And 'hello' to another new thread.

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