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To be upset about photos on husbands phone?

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blueocean88 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:03:14

We're on holiday at the moment and I was on my husbands iPad with our son looking through photos, he got excited swiping through and accidentally deleted one. I went into deleted photos to retrieve it and there's photos in there that my husbands taken of women around the pool. Obviously angry/upset I looked at his messages and he'd messaged a friend saying there was loads of Milfs in our hotel. He's since deleted that message but can only assume he's sent the photos to his friend. I'm really upset about it, haven't said anything to husband yet as don't even know what to say and really don't want to ruin our holiday. Would you be upset about this?

Whatsername17 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:04:41

Yes. Because he is behaving like a giant sleaze ball. Kick him in the crotch on behalf of all women.

Fruitcorner123 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:05:19

Yes I would be absolutely furious. You are not ruining the holiday, he already has.

jarhead123 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:05:56

What a dickhead. Men like this give other men a bad rep!

Patriciathestripper1 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:09:39

I'd say he's already ruined the holiday for you.
He sounds immature and a bit of a perv. Sorry but he is disgusting and disrespectful taking pictures of unsuspecting women
Especially as he is on holiday with his family.

WhisperingLoudly Mon 24-Apr-17 20:10:21

That is revolting and really really creepy

BumWad Mon 24-Apr-17 20:11:24


Totally gross!!!

HumphreyCobblers Mon 24-Apr-17 20:11:29

taking pictures of unsuspecting women is grim, messaging his mate about them is dreadful.

you are right to be upset. I would be livid.

BrightonBelleCat Mon 24-Apr-17 20:11:53

What? That's horrible I would be livid. One thing to jokingly send a text saying lots of milfs (which is fucking horrible by itself) but another to take pics of unsuspecting women.

NoCapes Mon 24-Apr-17 20:12:01

Eurgh what a disgusting pervert
Those poor women he took pictures of!
I'd go apeshit and he's possibly be looking for different accommodation for the rest of the holiday
And if the holiday is ruined, he did that, not you

StandardNameHere Mon 24-Apr-17 20:12:54

That's grim, how dare he take photos without those women knowing.
What a creep. I would call him out and hope he's bloody embarrassed and disgusted with himself

Crowdblundering Mon 24-Apr-17 20:13:39

Thought you were going to say porn which I am quite relaxed about but this is really really boak and would make me lose all respect for him - sorry OP sad

AnyFucker Mon 24-Apr-17 20:13:39

You ate married to a sleazy dickhead

BrightonBelleCat Mon 24-Apr-17 20:13:49

I never say ltb but he clearly has zero respect for women. That would make me question a lot about him.

TwentyCups Mon 24-Apr-17 20:14:07

What a pervert. I would be furious if I was photographed by a pool! Incredibly disrespectful behaviour towards woman - including you!

I would call him out on it.

SpuriouserAndSpuriouser Mon 24-Apr-17 20:14:43

What the fuck?! That is disgusting behaviour. Is he normally the kind of man who sees women as objects to be perved over?

PoliticalBiscuit Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:04

Eewww. He has already ruined the holiday. Use the time out of your home to talk it through. And break his ipad. And don't let him rub sunscreen on you... Eewww.

MrsTerryPratchett Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:10

He thinks it's fine to take pictures without permission, perve over them and encourage his friends to perve over them. He's a really dreadful person. I can't imagine this is your first inkling...

mcdog Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:14


Thinkingblonde Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:28

Before you kick him in the crotch kick his phone into the pool.
My FIL was home movie fan, back in the day when DH was a little lad, they went abroad a lot and FIL took his cine camera on Holliday.
He loved showing us these films. There's one memorable one where he's panning the camera round the pool, spots a couple of topless women and he zooms in on them. The women see him, swim over to him then start throwing water at him.
DH would be aged 8 and FIL 30.

Kennethnoisewater Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:35

I'd find the women he's photographed and tell them. Let them deal with the sleazy, perverted, disrespectful prick, seriously, how disgusting is that?
I'd pack my stuff and leave tbh, he has no respect for you whatsoever.

happypoobum Mon 24-Apr-17 20:15:49

I would tell him I had found them and had told all the women (and their respective partners) what your disgusting sleazeball DH had done.

Ugh - did you have any idea he was like this?


Obsidian77 Mon 24-Apr-17 20:16:10

I would break his phone and be speaking to a solicitor upon my return. Absolutely shameful behaviour. Sorry op what a horrible thing to see.

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom Mon 24-Apr-17 20:16:21

Fucking hell, your husband is a fucking grade A sleazebag-not a quality you'd want in a man is it really? hmm

Olddear Mon 24-Apr-17 20:17:31

Milfs?? Poor women being photographed and letched over....what a creep.

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