To be upset about photos on husbands phone?

[blueocean88]

We're on holiday at the moment and I was on my husbands iPad with our son looking through photos, he got excited swiping through and accidentally deleted one. I went into deleted photos to retrieve it and there's photos in there that my husbands taken of women around the pool. Obviously angry/upset I looked at his messages and he'd messaged a friend saying there was loads of Milfs in our hotel. He's since deleted that message but can only assume he's sent the photos to his friend. I'm really upset about it, haven't said anything to husband yet as don't even know what to say and really don't want to ruin our holiday. Would you be upset about this?

[Lennielala]

What a fucking horrible man.
Fly kick him right into the pool and tell the women btw do you know my husband was taking photos of you.

Big hugs to you.

[Maudlinmaud]

Voyeurisim!

[Crowdblundering]

This has made me feel really ew about being by the pool on holiday

[Lennielala]

Ugh I'm actually so angry at this post!!!!!!

Make sure you go to town in his ass

[Unicorndreamer]

Omg what an absolute creep. Sorry but id be confronting him and telling him yout are disgusted. I'd also confront the woman around the pool and let them tell their husbands and let them deal with the creepy bastard . Urghhhhh he is disgusting

[IrregularCommentary]

Christ. Someone needs a lesson in consent. What a sleaze. Sorry OP, I'd really struggle with this absolute lack of respect towards women.

[TheWitTank]

Eww what a fucking pervert. Sorry OP, that's a crap thing to find. I would be raging. Not with jealously mind you, with the absolute disgusting lack of respect for another person. An awful trait.

[Sugarpiehoneyeye]

Grim.

[Mustardnowletsnotbesilly]

If there was an extraordinarily good looking lifeguard or some such on hols I might well take a pic and send it back to the girls and I've been married for years... I think my husband would think it was funny...
If you don't like it kick him up the bum but its hardly LTB stuff.

[JamesBlonde1]

Really horrid behaviour. He should be thoroughly ashamed. You think you know someone, then they do this. What on earth do he and his mate talk about and do when they're together?!

I'm afraid I'd have to say something. He's the one who has spoilt the holiday.

Ask him why there are lots of perverted photos on his iPad? Just that. Say nothing else. Let him squirm. Then ask him what positive aspects of his personality exist to cause you to believe you should remain in a relationship with him. It's not looking ver appealing at the moment.

Poor you, don't feel shit about yourself either. A good man would make you feel like a Queen.

[doubleshotespresso]

Is he 15? Woah OP I am sorry but your DH is decidedly out of order, I would book him a flight home.

[Maudlinmaud]

Mustard I assume you would ask for the lifegaurds consent to take his picture.

[Lennielala]

I would just say to him "a woman came up to me and said are you with that man? And then she told me you'd been taking pictures of her" is this true? Just play dumb

Then kick him in the stones (well just in your head)

[PeaFaceMcgee]

1. Disrespectful to women, seeing them and (illegally?) photographing them as objects for his dick to lust over
   

1. Disrespectful to you
   

1. Disrespectful to his son
   

I would try to enjoy the sunshine and make mental notes on how best to prepare for divorce on our return. No going back from such revolting behaviour.

[Starlighter]

Aside from being a total dick to you, this is really creepy behaviour! You can't go around taking photos and perving on women like this! If someone catches him, he could find himself on the receiving end of some very angry women - and their husbands!! Who may even get the hotel involved!

You need to talk to him. This is not on! He sounds like he's got a problem... Gross.

[CaoNiMartacus]

Grubby blighter. Get rid!

[PeaFaceMcgee]

Actually - agree with a pp - book him a flight home. Threaten to report him to the hotel if he argues.

[toffeeboffin]

Its pretty disgusting actually.

I'd be having a serious think about the relationship.

Emailing his mates 'milfs'

WTAF

[Sunnyjac]

Taking photos of people without their knowledge = voyeurism = criminal offence. How would you feel if you thought other men round that pool were doing that to you? Sorry but this requires a serious conversation. Good luck

[ThreeFish]

The text is bad enough on its own tbh.
Photos makes it a lot, lot worse.

[TrollTheRespawnJeremy]

That is so creepy. I couldn't be around him.

[Crapuccino]

Eeeww. Those are creepshots, OP. That's disgusting, and a moral violation of privacy, even if not a legal one.

You might need to pick how and when you raise the issue - back at home might mean you don't have a very awkward flight back with your DC in close attendance, but you really cannot let that behaviour go.

[AnyFucker]

Are you coming back, op ?

[LagunaBubbles]

Has he got any good points? Because this is horrible.