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Told by boss to stop hugging in the office

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Ilovechcolatealways · 05/11/2024 21:52

Evening all

I have been working at my current job for over 20 years so have built good relationships with most colleagues
I consider it part of my personality to hug certain colleagues. I usually hug hello / goodbye but sometimes also during the working day

We work in a stressful environment, therefore some days are worse than others and I like a hug to relieve stress !!!

Today I was called into an office by my boss and told that I must stop hugging in the workplace and it is not the 'done' thing at work.

In all of my time there, I have NEVER been told / asked to stop doing this.

The recipient's of the hugs always reciprocate the hug and none have ever told me they are uncomfortable with them. Obviously if they were then I would stop immediately and apologise. I have read our policies today and nowhere does it state that hugging is not allowed and I really don't want to stop.

Can anyone offer advice on how I can handle this ???

OP posts:
Wishitwasstraightforward · 03/01/2025 00:16

I think the most important thing to bear in mind is that now that your manager has asked you to stop hugging you MUST stop whether you / your coworkers like it or not. If you carry on you may find yourself in a very tricky situation.

You may want to prepare a professional explanation for the change in behaviour.......

I say this as someone who appreciates a hug on a bad day- but who also understands it is best avoided at work.

coralsky · 03/01/2025 00:20

Yes sorry op. I'm very open and affectionate but I wouldn't even do that. It's very inappropriate and quite odd tbh.

ItTook9Years · 03/01/2025 08:08

Why has this been resurrected after 2 months dormant?!

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