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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Trans woman gym goer caught masturbating in women’s changing room

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LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 12:39

I’ve included the NY Post article, the original TikTok video and an American police officer YouTuber video (Officer Tatum). This was in California (naturally) at a Planet Fitness gym.

In the beginning of the YouTube video you can see him clearly masturbating (along with his huge gross feet all splayed out), and if you want to avoid YouTube commentary jump to 4:30 for the confrontation.

I’ll transcribe some of the confrontation. It’s a few gym employees, the woman and her boyfriend.

BF: Bro do you go to the Taco Bell restroom and jack off? (Probably.) What the fuck is wrong with you bro? (AGP.)

Woman: Minors walking through here…(Probably the point.)

Trans: You guys, I was IN the stall. (Tip of the hat for not jacking off while at the bench press.)

BF: It does NOT FUCKING MATTER bro.

Trans: I’m not harassing anyone in the stall…I’m allowed to be in here.

Woman: You’re IN THE WOMAN’S BATHROOM.

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re not allowed to jerk off in here! That is so fucking weird! We have video fucking proof!

Trans: Um are you allowed to video in here? (Attention women: Never video the actions of a man committing a lewd act in public lest it make a man look bad.)

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re in the women’s bathroom jerking your fucking penis bro!

Trans: I’m transgender! (Here we go! The magic word. All take the knee and beg for forgiveness for your blasphemous ways at the shrine of Transgender!) I was drying off…(HAHAHA.)

Woman: That was you in the shower, too. (Feck’s sake.)

Trans: Right…

At this rate, we’re probably a mere 5 years away from the normalization of public masturbation.

Masturbation Story Hour coming to a library near you! Bring the whole family!

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinebimbo_/video/7591708460211866910

Trans gymgoer caught ‘masturbating’ in women’s bathroom at California Planet Fitness

Disturbing viral video shows the moment a transgender gymgoer appears to be masturbating in a stall inside the women’s bathroom at a Planet Fitness in California.

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/01/2026 12:49

Fucking creepy prick.

silverwrath · 10/01/2026 13:02

The gym workers stood like statues while her boyfriend took control of the situation.

At no time were the Police called.

The guy was just allowed to leave. Which blows my mind.

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 13:13

silverwrath · 10/01/2026 13:02

The gym workers stood like statues while her boyfriend took control of the situation.

At no time were the Police called.

The guy was just allowed to leave. Which blows my mind.

Enraging, isn’t it? Planet Fitness also had a trans (man) arrested (unbelievably) who said he identified as a woman and paraded around naked in the changing room.

www.foxnews.com/us/911-audio-captures-woman-planet-fitness-reporting-completely-naked-biological-male-womens-locker-room/

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StabbyCat · 10/01/2026 13:15

Come on TRA Mumsnetters - can’t wait to hear you defend this POS. After all he just wants to pee, right? 🙄

PeachOctopus · 10/01/2026 13:19

Grim
I think the only thing that will work is a boycott of the gym chain.
The problem is that such a lot of Californians agree with trans legislation.

FranticFrankie · 10/01/2026 13:24

StabbyCat · 10/01/2026 13:15

Come on TRA Mumsnetters - can’t wait to hear you defend this POS. After all he just wants to pee, right? 🙄

Ah they're not "real" trans people though are they?? 🙄🙄

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 13:26

Ack! In the other Planet Fitness article I posted the girl was a minor and Miller went into the woman's locker room and stripped down completely naked in front of her.

Then he asked the teen to rub lotion on him and shower together. California’s Governor Newsom has lost his mind with this trans stuff. That these men are emboldened to this stuff is making me lose my mind.

He’s quite a lovely lass, he is.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/north-carolina-man-arrested-stripping-planet-fitness-womans-locker-room-front-minor-report

North Carolina man arrested after stripping in Planet Fitness women's locker room in front of minor: report

A man, who said he was transgendered, was arrested after he allegedly stripped naked in the women's locker room at a Planet Fitness gym in North Carolina and exposed himself to a minor.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/north-carolina-man-arrested-stripping-planet-fitness-womans-locker-room-front-minor-report

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silverwrath · 10/01/2026 13:43

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 13:26

Ack! In the other Planet Fitness article I posted the girl was a minor and Miller went into the woman's locker room and stripped down completely naked in front of her.

Then he asked the teen to rub lotion on him and shower together. California’s Governor Newsom has lost his mind with this trans stuff. That these men are emboldened to this stuff is making me lose my mind.

He’s quite a lovely lass, he is.

https://www.foxnews.com/us/north-carolina-man-arrested-stripping-planet-fitness-womans-locker-room-front-minor-report

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But it never happens, right. 🙄

Except that it does.

Let's not forget though, women just need to be kind.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 10/01/2026 13:58

StabbyCat · 10/01/2026 13:15

Come on TRA Mumsnetters - can’t wait to hear you defend this POS. After all he just wants to pee, right? 🙄

Well, he just wanted to wank.

Wonder what it was about being a man in a women's space, in a cubicle, with undressed women all around him, that drove that wank?

Can't think.

singthing · 10/01/2026 14:13

I watched this yesterday and the speed with which he deflected the whole problem as her filming - which was just his feet and his shadow, and the evidence of him masturbating - was almost impressive. It was a clear indication of the level of male entitlement.

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 14:31

Waiting for the obligatory, “Well, acktshually, people with their phones out filming in the toilets bother me more than trans people jacking off in the women’s changing room ever will.”

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Greyskybluesky · 10/01/2026 14:47

We just want to...wank

1984Now · 10/01/2026 14:58

When I watched The Matrix in 1999, I always wondered where the fabric of reality would wobble, but not in a million years would I ever have guessed that this would be the ripple between reality and unreality.
Yet here we are, just a half century later...

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/01/2026 15:22

1984Now · 10/01/2026 14:58

When I watched The Matrix in 1999, I always wondered where the fabric of reality would wobble, but not in a million years would I ever have guessed that this would be the ripple between reality and unreality.
Yet here we are, just a half century later...

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It’s worth reading the Salon article about how the Wachowski “sisters” decided they were women.

1984Now · 10/01/2026 15:31

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/01/2026 15:22

It’s worth reading the Salon article about how the Wachowski “sisters” decided they were women.

Gosh, yes! I'd forgotten about them.
Straight line from The Wachowskis to Senator Prytzker to...well, history isn't panning out the way the transgender and transhumanism lobby thought it was going to.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 15:38

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 14:31

Waiting for the obligatory, “Well, acktshually, people with their phones out filming in the toilets bother me more than trans people jacking off in the women’s changing room ever will.”

That definitely needs to be added to the bingo card!

1984Now · 10/01/2026 15:59

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 15:38

That definitely needs to be added to the bingo card!

Was waiting for one of these animated coat-stands to say that he was way more woman than those heckling him could ever be.

logiccalls · 10/01/2026 16:38

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1984Now · 10/01/2026 16:41

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Well, I now object to the term "trans child" in situations where it might arise. Luckily no blowback, but I still cross my fingers.
How we've fallen.

PriOn1 · 10/01/2026 16:53

LesbianNana · 10/01/2026 14:31

Waiting for the obligatory, “Well, acktshually, people with their phones out filming in the toilets bother me more than trans people jacking off in the women’s changing room ever will.”

And the award (albeit on another thread) goes to @ShowMeTheSea

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5473498-men-in-womens-bathroom-at-not-all-gays-awards?reply=149767943&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

Congratulations in order! 🦄🥳

Men in women's bathroom at Not All Gays awards | Mumsnet

[[https://x.com/maevehalligan/status/2009770720461570206?s=46 https://x.com/maevehalligan/status/2009770720461570206?s=46]] gosh but how can you teee...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5473498-men-in-womens-bathroom-at-not-all-gays-awards?reply=149767943

logiccalls · 10/01/2026 16:53

1984Now · 10/01/2026 16:41

Well, I now object to the term "trans child" in situations where it might arise. Luckily no blowback, but I still cross my fingers.
How we've fallen.

Yes. Confused child. Troubled child. Potentially- same- sex attracted child. But never 'trans', because there is no such thing.

And, it is dangerous to tell a child that what is worn changes identity. A child was imprisoned by a shopkeeper who had taken years obliging his customers to collude in his sexual fetish fantasy. The little girl had been 'groomed' by the fact all the adults seemed to accept what was obviously a lie. A child following that logic would assume it safe to leap from a high building, if dressed in a cape. Or to wander out alone if dressed as a superman.

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 17:00

PriOn1 · 10/01/2026 16:53

And the award (albeit on another thread) goes to @ShowMeTheSea

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5473498-men-in-womens-bathroom-at-not-all-gays-awards?reply=149767943&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share

Congratulations in order! 🦄🥳

Except I never said anything about "jacking off" on that thread, did I.
You've added that bit all by yourself then tagged me into this one.

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 17:01

I'm not demonising an entire minority on the actions of a few.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 10/01/2026 17:04

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 17:01

I'm not demonising an entire minority on the actions of a few.

For the lurkers

men however they present are not a persecuted minority. The reason we don't want TW in women's spaces is not because they are trans but because they are men

1984Now · 10/01/2026 17:19

ShowMeTheSea · 10/01/2026 17:01

I'm not demonising an entire minority on the actions of a few.

The only one demonized here is the woman who had to balance 1001 risks and cost benefit ratios in her head for the "simple" decision of whether to confront this perp, and all the attendant angst that comes with the choice to be brave and intervene.
That she felt there were 1000 reasons not to confront, and only 1 to confront is real demonization, not your support for breaking a previously sacrosanct social contract between citizens.