Trans woman gym goer caught masturbating in women’s changing room

[LesbianNana]

I’ve included the NY Post article, the original TikTok video and an American police officer YouTuber video (Officer Tatum). This was in California (naturally) at a Planet Fitness gym.

In the beginning of the YouTube video you can see him clearly masturbating (along with his huge gross feet all splayed out), and if you want to avoid YouTube commentary jump to 4:30 for the confrontation.

I’ll transcribe some of the confrontation. It’s a few gym employees, the woman and her boyfriend.

BF: Bro do you go to the Taco Bell restroom and jack off? (Probably.) What the fuck is wrong with you bro? (AGP.)

Woman: Minors walking through here…(Probably the point.)

Trans: You guys, I was IN the stall. (Tip of the hat for not jacking off while at the bench press.)

BF: It does NOT FUCKING MATTER bro.

Trans: I’m not harassing anyone in the stall…I’m allowed to be in here.

Woman: You’re IN THE WOMAN’S BATHROOM.

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re not allowed to jerk off in here! That is so fucking weird! We have video fucking proof!

Trans: Um are you allowed to video in here? (Attention women: Never video the actions of a man committing a lewd act in public lest it make a man look bad.)

BF: It doesn’t matter, you’re in the women’s bathroom jerking your fucking penis bro!

Trans: I’m transgender! (Here we go! The magic word. All take the knee and beg for forgiveness for your blasphemous ways at the shrine of Transgender!) I was drying off…(HAHAHA.)

Woman: That was you in the shower, too. (Feck’s sake.)

Trans: Right…

At this rate, we’re probably a mere 5 years away from the normalization of public masturbation.

Masturbation Story Hour coming to a library near you! Bring the whole family!

https://nypost.com/2026/01/05/us-news/trans-gymgoer-caught-masturbating-in-womens-bathroom-at-california-planet-fitness/

https://www.tiktok.com/@borderlinebimbo_/video/7591708460211866910

Do you think it’s worse to film men wanking in the women’s changing room to have proof of it than to be a man wanking in the women’s changing room @NumbersGuy? This is my shocked face.

inviting any men in at all opens women’s spaces up to all men

This argument ^ is the one that all the TRAs supporters seem to ignore.

Yet you can't seem to grasp that's not what people are saying - we can all demonise them.
I can't even be arsed arguing any further. It's futile.
It's the exact same argument that sees people saying *keep all boat people out."
The same script, everything.

Genuinely @ShowMeTheSea what are people saying ie what am I supposed to grasp?

Accepting that some TW are ‘real’ trans whilst some claiming to be TW are ‘fake’ trans (eg the photo LesbianNana · Yesterday 13:26 posted does not appear to be a genuine TW), how are we supposed to know the difference?

Men wanking in women's single sex (and supposedly meant to be), safe spaces has EFF ALL to do with refugees on boats and migrants @ShowMeTheSea . What is WRONG with you that you are somehow conflating these entirely separate things????!!! Demonising a minority; don't make me laugh.

These entitled, sexual predators are MEN regardless if they wear "girly" purple slippers or not. By going along with the narrative that they are seemingly all persecuted poor souls, you enable these perverts to get away with sex crimes and then predictably anyone who pushes back is labelled the "bad" one. How have we ended up here? I genuinely do not get it. FFS.

It's NumbersGuy possibly other previous user names, it's a familiar style

he thinks men but most especially TW should be allowed to do what they like anywhere they like at any time and women objecting to this are bigots

While I totally agree with everything in this post, on a fundamental level it doesn't even matter.

TW - good/bad, real/fake - it's irrelevant, they're all men and as such have no business being in women's single sex spaces.

Well I've never heard that kind of bigoted misogyny before, how novel.

Oh wait. Typical entitled man. 🙄

On the other thread the men in the womens area choose to breach the social contract which is there to protect women from actual harm and men from being accused of doing harm.

Any man who chooses to break that part of the social contract is part of your "entire minority" carrying out the same action as each and every member of the "entire minority".

Breaching of the social contract is what the individual in that gym (on this thread ) choose to do and is part of your "entier minority". He choose to and carried out a further breach of the social contract and likely broke the law by forcing women to participate in his sex act.

It’s not normal behaviour, don’t tarnish normal trans people with this because it’s unacceptable behaviour whatever your orientation. Normal men don’t do this in men’s changing rooms either

But we are apparently bigots if we don't want these men in our spaces @hohahagogo

Its not about 'tarnishing' people. It's about what women are being expected to put up with because we are being told we have to give up our single sex spaces to men.

I’m not disagreeing @TheKeatingFive

But meeting the TRAs supporters where they are - including the belief that there is some special process where gender trumps sex - it’s their answer to this question of how do we tell that I’m interested in hearing.

I’ve asked that before to others and was told no more than "because you fucking can" and wondered if @ShowMeTheSea had a fuller answer.

Absolutely and I totally agree with everything you've said.

I just sometimes feel like shouting from the rooftops that no man, no matter how nice, how genuine, how troubled, etc, etc has any kind of right to be in a woman's space.

But I agree completely with the point that no one ever elaborates on how we're supposed to be able to tell 'authentic' from 'non authentic' and the answer seems to be that women are just going to be collateral damage there and tough shit.

Agree. Likewise Hoha says It’s not normal behaviour, don’t tarnish normal trans people with this because it’s unacceptable behaviour whatever your orientation but how do we tell the the ‘normal trans’ from the not normal?

The only way I can see is after the fact. So once the not normal trans has masturbated or exposed himself to a young girl, we can know he wasn’t a normal trans person. And this is okay because at least we haven’t upset the normal trans person… ?

Not that I’m expecting an answer.

Yet TRA and all TRA supporters demand that women put up with men in what should be single sex spaces. Any person who wants men of any kind in what should be a womans single sex space is supporting this man and his actions.

Why is it that all these men are not obliged to be in mens single sex spaces?
Such that when or if a man decided to force the other men to participate in his sex act that it is a problem which must be managed by other men?

It's the exact same argument that sees people saying keep all boat people out."
The same script, everything.*

No it isn't - that's untrue unless you think you can divide the world into two groups, boat people and non boat people, and you think that boat people commit nearly all sexual violence.

If you genuinely think this is the same argument then you haven't understood my earlier post. Without any snark, I'm happy to explain further if you can specify what bits don't make sense to you, as it's really important to get the point across.

Exactly, they are ALL men.

We don't need to "tarnish" anyone.

The point is to decide whether policies that allow male people into female changing rooms are reasonable.

I think it's screamingly obvious that they aren't and that female people, regardless of gender identity, should be permitted to have single-sex spaces that don't include male people regardless of gender identity.

I hope that's clear enough for everyone to comprehend.

If you think it's reasonable to allow male people into all female spaces, @hohahagogo , how would you word a policy that would reduce the risk of this happening? What's your solution? Or do you think it's ok that this happens? I can't tell from your post.

Imagine thinking a male wanking in a female single sex changing area is normal and appropriate behaviour and that it should be accepted.

I also don’t believe the person doing it didn’t know that he was casting a shadow / making noise that would attract attention so that women would know exactly what he was doing or wanting women to think he was doing. He might have been polishing a silver candlestick and enjoying the reactions to wank over in his own home, whatever. I believe the intention to be seen was very much front of mind.

don’t tarnish normal trans people with this

But it does tarnish “normal” trans people. Because other trans identifying men, ones who wouldn’t masturbate, know that for them to be in women’s spaces means there is a price to pay, and that’s other men who would masturbate in women’s spaces. They know this and don’t care.

They also know that their presence may lead women to believe they are a man with nefarious intentions, even if they don’t have nefarious intentions. Again, they don’t care.

This is why good men stay out of women’s spaces. They know they aren’t a threat to women, but know their presence would be threatening to women, because they know women can’t read men’s minds and know they mean no harm.

This sort of incident, and the hundreds and hundreds of incidents like it, tarnishes the entire trans community because the entire trans community just looks at incidents like this and shrugs “So?”

And yet, allowing any male person into the female single sex provision allows exactly those male people who wish to do this, of whatever gender identity they have, to do this in a female single sex provision.

That is one point.

The other point is that it is somewhat meaningless to declare that NATWALT. The % of male people doing this is greater than the % of female people doing this. The pattern of doing this shows male people with transgender identities retain their male behaviours and are not female, and never were.

Ahh. Cross posted

There’s a reason they are doing it in the women’s rather than in the men’s though.

You are missing the point - trans identification comes about for a lot of different complex reasons, but some of these reasons for some trans identified men are sexual.

Men have weird sexual paraphilias overwhelmingly more often than women. Go and ask a psychologist who works in this field.

So it’s another strong reason to keep all male people out of female single sex spaces.

Yep, one of the reasons trans id men want to be in the women's toilets (and not used mixed sex) is because they want to involve unconsenting women and girls in their sexual fetish.

Which is a good reason why they should all be kept out.

Exactly this.

There are a few transsexuals who have been vocal about either using mixed sex or the mens with no problems.

Unfortunately most TRAs don't seem to care (actually I think allowing fetishists to use unconsenting women must be the point given the lack of concern) and they turn viciously on those transsexuals who do speak up for women's rights and safeguarding children.