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Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear

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Clymene · 02/03/2023 09:18

Journalist Dominique Samuels has posted video of one of their events: https://twitter.com/dominiquetaegon/status/1630948003962912768?s=61&t=gd6tu0Iz6JpyKXGLWMLGjg

Which features men gyrating and hanging from the ceiling surrounded by a crowd of clueless women and their babies.

I would say it's NSFW but it's apparently safe for babies so have a watch.

Here's a reddux article:

https://reduxx.info/uk-sold-out-rave-for-babies-featuring-drag-queens-prompts-outrage/

Since the video went viral, the company has taken down its website and Facebook and made their Instagram private. I wonder why? Confused

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Oysterbabe · 03/03/2023 12:42

It's fine if naked strangers pick you up, see how mummy is laughing and smiling?
😡

bakingmads · 03/03/2023 12:45

Helleofabore · 02/03/2023 18:44

I would also recommend doing an image search with the company's name. There is cached image of that same picture used in the Vault advertisement under a google image search as being cached under that company's URL.

Same performer.

I suspect you have either believed someone who was trying to shut the discussion down, or you, personally, wish to believe that these are fake videos.

But unless the company now comes out with that statement, I think that argument is not convincing at all.

The videos and photos were taken from the company's own Instagram page. They put the pictures & videos themselves! That's the issue with narcissistic people! They brag and then get caught.

Murraydeservedit · 03/03/2023 12:45

Oysterbabe · 03/03/2023 12:42

It's fine if naked strangers pick you up, see how mummy is laughing and smiling?
😡

That photo angers me.

That child looks around the same age as my youngest daughter.

Over my dead body would I allow that. Absolutely disgusting and there is no defending it.

KatMcBundleFace · 03/03/2023 12:49

mirax · 03/03/2023 11:51

A poster came on midway through the thread claiming the videos were fake. This tweet which is gaining some traction amongst TRAs makes the same claim. I dont think the videos are fake at all(though I have no expertise in this area) but do look at how confidently this is asserted.
twitter.com/HugoThePinkCat/status/1631303882725892116

It's a furry.
It's probably disappointed there's no one dressed up as wolves giving the kids the "show"

lechiffre55 · 03/03/2023 12:50

Soubriquet · 03/03/2023 12:30

They are really digging their heels in arent they?

Determined to say it’s fake which means underneath it all, they don’t agree with this act

They agree with the act. They disagree with the reception from the general public. The accusation of the video being false comes purely from the negative attention the video is getting. If the reaction was positive there would be no need for an accusation of the video being false, they would embrace it.
It is purely denial "this never happened".

This is what they are saying:
“The Party told you to reject the evidence of your eyes and ears. It was their final, most essential command.”
― George Orwell, 1984

Reject what your eyes are seeing.

Datun · 03/03/2023 12:51

However, Ateh explained further why she thought that people were up in arms.

‘It just shows you that nipples when you are breastfeeding is a beautiful natural thing but put some tassels on and there’s a problem,’ she said.

A penis is a beautiful, natural thing, I don't want to see them in my kid's face with a bow on.

Or a vulva for that matter.

(I realise calling a penis beautiful might be controversial).

Toseland · 03/03/2023 12:56

I've not read this whole thread but I wanted to point out that the bloody BBC has normalised drag with Ru Pauls Drag Race and because of this people are struggling to draw their boundaries properly.
Also re: Poverty chic? I don’t get it 🤷‍♀️ it seems to have been a popular middle class thing for a number of years now!

RethinkingLife · 03/03/2023 12:57

Murraydeservedit · 03/03/2023 12:45

That photo angers me.

That child looks around the same age as my youngest daughter.

Over my dead body would I allow that. Absolutely disgusting and there is no defending it.

Did you see the piece about kindergartens that explores the conflicts that progressive parents face when they balance their instinctive response against the milieu that this is evidence of undesirable biases?

Similar scenario.

www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/the-sexual-revolution-and-children-how-the-left-took-things-too-far-a-702679.html

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 12:58

What a knob!

The video doesn’t look like it was shot in the Honour Oak pub because it wasn’t!

The venue is Patchworks in Leyton.

Handily they’ve posted the entire spec of the building online!

irp.cdn-website.com/9c7ff87a/files/uploaded/Mobilstudio_spec_Q4-2021.pdf

It’s got multi directional, natural lighting - really nice venue when it’s not full of dude’s showing their bare arses to babies…

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Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
Bamboux · 03/03/2023 13:01

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 12:58

What a knob!

The video doesn’t look like it was shot in the Honour Oak pub because it wasn’t!

The venue is Patchworks in Leyton.

Handily they’ve posted the entire spec of the building online!

irp.cdn-website.com/9c7ff87a/files/uploaded/Mobilstudio_spec_Q4-2021.pdf

It’s got multi directional, natural lighting - really nice venue when it’s not full of dude’s showing their bare arses to babies…

Have you posted this on twitter? Not that it will make any difference to the lying tossers.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 13:01

Datun · 03/03/2023 12:42

Christ, I'm still stuck by how absolute rubbish that is. The bloke in the harness just looks like he's stuck and can't get out. Bending his legs this way and that.

It's David Brent levels of cringe.

As I said upthread, it bondage ceiling fella’s incredible lack of aerial skills reminded me of this cartoon trope:

Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
bakingmads · 03/03/2023 13:04

Datun · 03/03/2023 07:46

Do we know what the 'sensory' part is yet? Half naked bondage man and 'baby sensory' in the same performance sounds very disturbing.

Very disturbing indeed!

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 13:05

‘When I used to watch Saturday night television when I was a kid I would be holding out for the likes of you know Danny [La Rue] or Dame Edna, and they were marvellous,’ he said.

From the metro article.

No. Fuck right off with that. Dame Edna was never sexualised.

‘It just shows you that nipples when you are breastfeeding is a beautiful natural thing but put some tassels on and there’s a problem,’ she said.

Yes... who the fuck puts tassels on nipples for ANYTHING except for sexualised reasons?

What the fuck is wrong with these people that they no longer can recognise sexualised actions?

SinnerBoy · 03/03/2023 13:08

mirax · Today 11:51

A poster came on midway through the thread claiming the videos were fake.

Crikey, that's proper moon landings done in Hollywood stuff, isn't it?

And it's laughable that all of the imagery and footage is from the perverts' own damned website.

I agree with the, "Ooh, terrible, isn't it? The lengths transphobes will go to..."

"What's that, Skippy, it's all real? God, those prudes need to get over themselves! Nothing to see here!"

sentiments.

bakingmads · 03/03/2023 13:08

Jackiebrambles · 03/03/2023 08:27

My fellow se Londoners might be interested to know that someone posted about this on the local Facebook group last night. It’s gone poof now but the reaction was very different from the weekend, where we were all called far right bigots for having an issue with drag shows for kids.

The admins of SE23mums FB are clearly sympathetic to men in women face dressed as sluts cavorting with babies and toddlers. The post was removed within hours.

bakingmads · 03/03/2023 13:09

Hoppinggreen · 03/03/2023 08:27

So apparently they have cancelled future shows due to “trolls”

Good! All their events need to be cancelled and everyone need to be interrogated by police.

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 13:12

Bamboux · 03/03/2023 13:01

Have you posted this on twitter? Not that it will make any difference to the lying tossers.

I’m not really a tweeter! They monitor us anyway.

Here’s one of the other venues in Caba Baba Rave’s images, it’s the upstairs room of a pub called The Birds in Leytonstone:

www.pubweddinglondon.com/the-birds-gallery

www.thebirds.pub/bookings

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Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
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Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 13:13

"What's that, Skippy, it's all real? God, those prudes need to get over themselves! Nothing to see here!"

OH MY GOD! A fellow Skippy lover!!!! Whodathunkit on a UK parenting website!

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 13:15

What's that Skip? Those people have their pants on fire from their many lies? Yeah? Well, we'd better go and put those fires out. Bush fire season and all....

Datun · 03/03/2023 13:17

Crikey. Is this Skippy the bush kangaroo? Waves of childhood memories on a Saturday morning.

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 13:21

Oh, it was over here too?

We had joeys as I was growing up so I called them all Skippy. The neighbours used to find them alive after the mothers had died and my mum would raise them.

I also had a dinner setting with Skippy on it. I have to say I was a big fan. Couldn't get my child to watch it at all as a kid. 😁

Helleofabore · 03/03/2023 13:22

I imagine Skippy would not be acceptable entertainment for these parents at all!

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 13:23

Funnily enough, Patchworks have made their Insta private - unusual for a venue… and the website for The Birds has at least one dead page.

The Birds hosts Drag Karaoke and a bring your baby pub quiz (which looks pretty wholesome). Not sure wtf they were thinking re: deliberately combining babies and drag into one event.

That leopard print leotard looks familiar though, so it looks like the organisers of the Baby Rave were working with this venue back in 2021, just not with babies involved yet.

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Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
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Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
Caba Baba Rave - take your baby to watch nearly naked men in fetish gear
lechiffre55 · 03/03/2023 13:25

In this thread some people have mentioned it's ok to do sexual stuff in front of kids. I want to give a real life example that proves how badly it turns out.
The villain of the story is Anthony Weiner. No I'm not making that up, no Weiner is not a nickname, it's his actual name. This is a true story.

Anthony Weiner was a Democrat representing a district in New York from around 200-2010ish. He was married to a lady called Huma Abedin ( Hillary Clinton's most trusted aide ). Both Anthoy and Huma were very much in the public eye as politicians. Anthoy had a problem. He liked to send dick pics to women. One of the women came forwards, then more. There was a huge politcal scandal in the press about it. It hurt his wife Huma terribly. They got through the problem and kept their marriage intact. After Anthoy and Huma got through it all Anthony resumed sending dick pics to women. No I'm not making that up. He was on some hook up websites under the pseudoname "Carlos Danger" sending dick picks. No I'm not making that up. At one point he was taking dick picks on his phone in a room with his and Huma's infant child clearly visible in the background. The dick picks with the child in the background got sent to women just like all the other dick pics. No I'm not making that up.

Any rational person should believe that no one could be that stupid, that the story is made up. It's not. There a documentary called "Weiner" it's an hour and a half long. It is the most incredible thing you will ever watch. I think you can rent it on Amazon Video, but it's been on lots of platforms. You will not believe it.

A man who has no compunction about taking dick pics with his own infant in the background, and sending those dick picks off to women under the psedounym Carlos Danger having already been through a political scandal over sending dick pics is a man who is not capable of seeing let alone respecting boundaries. The boundaries exist to protect children, our partners, and even ourselves. When you abandon or try to undermine those boundaries it only results in harm. Do not involve kids in your sex acts.

bunnypenny · 03/03/2023 13:31

CryptoFascistMadameCholet · 03/03/2023 13:23

Funnily enough, Patchworks have made their Insta private - unusual for a venue… and the website for The Birds has at least one dead page.

The Birds hosts Drag Karaoke and a bring your baby pub quiz (which looks pretty wholesome). Not sure wtf they were thinking re: deliberately combining babies and drag into one event.

That leopard print leotard looks familiar though, so it looks like the organisers of the Baby Rave were working with this venue back in 2021, just not with babies involved yet.

Can confirm the Bring Your Baby pub quiz is really good fun. As are the Bring Your Baby historic walks, just in case any London Mums are looking for (non-drag) things to do with their babies!

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