What engagement do you expect to get with this post?
Do you expect people to engage with you positively after posting it?
I ask because this week has seen many new posters come into threads and use inflammatory words and admonish posters in general and still expect people to politely engage. Why?
Why expect people to politely interact with you after a post intended to shame?
If you cannot read the many informative posts that may be not in the tone you want to read it in, may I suggest you find particular authors of books that suit you and read them. Women on this board are not here to be neutral educators. Education here happens without plan and often through emotional reactive posts.
Expecting women to ignore the slights, to ignore the constant cognitive distortion tactics of dishonest engagement and to just remain calm at all times seems more like unrealistic expectations. And selfish if posters are looking at our posts as serving them up information in the style they desire.