Hello, BleepBlipBop. I too once popped in and suggested the women round here be kinder, soften their words to make them easier to read.
I was taught (rather sharply) about female socialisation, that on this board I could express myself however I wanted, and to expect others too as well. My arse was handed to me, without even a gift bow on top.
As I've read on, and seen what women are dealing with, the sheer bloody ignorance of people who simply can't seem to listen when women speak, I've come to understand it better.
No amount of 'be kind' is going to smooth this shit show into reasonableness. When people will create a third category- men, women and rapists- in order to deny reality, then there's no point in wearing gloves. This is a bare knuckle situation.