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sarah ditum on Posie parker

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narcymum · 23/09/2022 22:33

Just saw a tweet where she calls PP a 'poundshop marine le Pen'
WTF! why are women who are supposedly in this fight together actively trying to sabotage another woman's activism?
Can we not move away from this schoolyard shit?

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ZombieMumEB · 24/09/2022 12:59

I am affected by late onset feminism and ROLF myself. Hit me sometime about 2 years ago.

ScreamingMeMe · 24/09/2022 13:01

And I think Ditum has a cheek accusing anyone else of not caring about other women.

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CriticalCondition · 24/09/2022 13:03

That's a great post @DameMaud and expresses so much of what I also feel.
Not sure about the acronym 😬but long live late onset feminism!

Hoppinggreen · 24/09/2022 13:03

Discovereads · 24/09/2022 00:28

Yeah well, I utterly dislike Posie Parker. She’s arrogant, bullying and smug. It wasn’t a good look when she was shouting down BLM activists or cheering on the blackfaced “black pampers” weirdo. I also can’t respect or support a fanatic who has stated repeatedly that keeping transwomen out of womens toilets is literally worth sacrificing all womens rights to abortions; who collaborates with white supremacists and who has accepted funds from the US far right.

None of these are “impossible standards of purity” imho. It’s entirely possible to campaign for womens rights without harassing BLM activists or applauding blackface, without collaborating with white supremacists, without being anti-abortion, and without taking money from the US far right.

She has the at any cost, by any means approach that leaves her without any moral compass or ethics. Of course no one is pure but that doesn’t mean someone so utterly amoral should be worshipped as some sort of heroic leader.

God, you’re brave.
I said on here once that while I admired her work and utterly condemned the abuse her and her family gets there were certain things about her I wasn’t so keen on.
I was attacked very swiftly and sharply, it’s all or nothing. Love her unconditionally or her fans will go after you.

VaggieMight · 24/09/2022 13:11

Was anyone else wondering why a far right group would be interested in filming a Let Women Speak event?

I tried to find their reporting but couldn't find much, they seem to have little online presence. It's the drag queen story time they're concerned about. Although he claims the drag queens read inappropriate stories to children. As shocking as DQST is, I don't think the content of the books have been the issue!

Hepwo · 24/09/2022 13:16

ScreamingMeMe · 24/09/2022 12:59

I think some people are mistaking "guilt by association" for plain old association.

This whole debate is pathetic. The TRAs are LOVING it.

They are welcome to love it.
They can enjoy watching their comrades lashing out if it gives them pleasure to see them so unhappy. They are gloating over the failures of the Labour party. Pretty miserable way to get your rocks off.

Both factions of Labour have lost this to the Conservative Government. A few Labour women made a contribution to that achievement in the face of severe hatred from their party, and if their party are enjoying their distress then non of us are surprised after what we've witnessed Labour do.

They have their own fringe meeting coming up shortly and no doubt their comrades will be as nasty and intimidating and spiteful as they can manage.

DameMaud · 24/09/2022 13:26

CriticalCondition · 24/09/2022 13:03

That's a great post @DameMaud and expresses so much of what I also feel.
Not sure about the acronym 😬but long live late onset feminism!

@CriticalCondition 🙀(can't find face palm emoji).
Just got why it's not a great acronym.
LOF it is then.😉

PomegranateOfPersephone · 24/09/2022 13:31

Every protest or demonstration I ever attended has had a crew of dodgy blockes turn up looking to push their own agenda or to make things “kick off” so they can get cheap thrills from a riot. It is a free country, just, so none of those genuinely concerned about the particular issue have any say over who else shows up.

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 13:48

Love her unconditionally or her fans will go after you

don't doubt this happened to you but it isn't automatic...I've seen loads of people say they don't love her unconditionally and nothing happens

In fact usually a poster says this and then someone ignores it completely and talks about worshipping

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 14:18

ScreamingMeMe · 24/09/2022 13:01

And I think Ditum has a cheek accusing anyone else of not caring about other women.

Yes. I still very much remember that ‘domesticated zombies’ dialogue.

And both those people wonder why women are reacting so strongly to this censuring.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 14:27

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 13:48

Love her unconditionally or her fans will go after you

don't doubt this happened to you but it isn't automatic...I've seen loads of people say they don't love her unconditionally and nothing happens

In fact usually a poster says this and then someone ignores it completely and talks about worshipping

Yes.

I have noticed that it is mostKy those coming to denounce KJK that use those terms. ‘It is a cult’, ‘worship’.

They are very divisive terms designed to rile others and mock. Like most mature adults, I expect that each person supporting KJK, will agree on some things and disagree on others she says and does.

What we seem to agree on, is that she is getting out there and supporting women in ways others are not. It is not necessarily that she is doing ‘more’, she is doing different things. And she should continue to do this without the public denouncements she is getting.

But again, posters are delighting in censuring women about who they listen to, what they read and what events they attend.

Plus ca change.

SecretTransTwitterEngineer · 24/09/2022 14:28

ScreamingMeMe · 24/09/2022 12:59

I think some people are mistaking "guilt by association" for plain old association.

This whole debate is pathetic. The TRAs are LOVING it.

I think it's more bemusement, a similar thing happened a few years ago when you guys argued a bit about sitting with the US religious right and Hatchet, plus some others, got marginalised for pushing back.

I have a modicum of sympathy for those that are, again, pushing back, but those supporting KJK will come thru because as Allison Bailey said "..join this struggle..whether they are non-racist, racist, homosexual or homophobic"

I'm glad I'm on the side that would never accept Tommy Robinson's latest gang hanging around and 'helping out'

reesewithoutaspoon · 24/09/2022 14:32

I dont worship PP unreservedly, some of the stuff isn't to my taste, because she doesn't tiptoe around the issue for fear of a backlash. She gives no shits.
But there's no denying that she is very effective at getting more main stream coverage.
She basically trolls the tra's into revealing themselves as the nasty little men and handmaidens they are. She knows they will protest her where ever she goes and uses that to her advantage. Shouty baby woman was an absolute gift, they cant help themselves, they are supplying their own sunlight and its fucking fabulous..
Standing against Izzard is a masterstroke.

Femm · 24/09/2022 14:34

She doesn't give a shit and I'm starting to wonder if this is what female liberation looks like.

this is an interesting point, thank you.

DysonSpheres · 24/09/2022 14:37

When was she shouting down BLM? Link please.

Brefugee · 24/09/2022 15:02

None of these are “impossible standards of purity” imho. It’s entirely possible to campaign for womens rights without harassing BLM activists or applauding blackface, without collaborating with white supremacists, without being anti-abortion, and without taking money from the US far right.

I'm not that up on PP - how can i find out about these things? What puts me off her is the cult of personality that has sprung up around her. Even while i agree with some of what she says.

Zeeza · 24/09/2022 15:04

Best way to find out these things is to smoke whatever her detractors are smoking.

chilling19 · 24/09/2022 15:10

@sarahditum thoroughly ratioed on Twitter

Hepwo · 24/09/2022 15:13

I'm glad I'm on the side that would never accept Tommy Robinson's latest gang hanging around and 'helping out'

That's you on Julie Bindle's side then?

Imnobody4 · 24/09/2022 15:16

Haven't read the whole thread but just want to say this constant carping is doing my head in. It's starting to look like no platforming and cancelling to me. Just let Posie do Posie and get on with your own strategy.
Just for the record I don't worship Posie but hell will freeze over before anyone dictates what I should think, who I should support or talk to. This is everyone's battle and there are no Generals self appointed or otherwise.

reesewithoutaspoon · 24/09/2022 15:19

Brefugee · 24/09/2022 15:02

None of these are “impossible standards of purity” imho. It’s entirely possible to campaign for womens rights without harassing BLM activists or applauding blackface, without collaborating with white supremacists, without being anti-abortion, and without taking money from the US far right.

I'm not that up on PP - how can i find out about these things? What puts me off her is the cult of personality that has sprung up around her. Even while i agree with some of what she says.

This is the issue that was claimed as blackface. Some bloke turned up in a black morph suit taking the piss out of the black-clad children at previous events that people had nicknamed the black pampers.. Here's a link, pink news I,m afraid but he explains his rationale for it
www.pinknews.co.uk/2022/06/02/anti-trans-denies-blackface-nappy-mr-menno/

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/09/2022 15:28

That's you on Julie Bindle's side then?

No, I don't think this poster is a fan of her either. They're more on "the side" of the people who send her vile abuse and want to get her deplatformed everywhere.

An advanced search can be helpful.

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/09/2022 15:39

Smilelesstalkmore · 24/09/2022 11:27

The Left will fuck you over but try and make themselves look good while doing it.

What a choice we have! Tbh, I think I would rather go Right and get it done with!

Be careful what you wish for. Conservative MP Jamie Wallis has said he is becoming a woman. Penny TWAW Mordaunt is the Leader of the Commons.

We are 1 transperson away from losing our right to single sex spaces because of the right wing Tory party.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 15:43

I'm glad I'm on the side that would never accept Tommy Robinson's latest gang hanging around and 'helping out'

oh for fucks sake.

Should we now list again all the people who ‘hang around’ your ‘gang’ then?

Did you ever come back and explain your word salad opening post that you left hanging?

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 15:44

Hepwo · 24/09/2022 15:13

I'm glad I'm on the side that would never accept Tommy Robinson's latest gang hanging around and 'helping out'

That's you on Julie Bindle's side then?

That would be hilarious if true!

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