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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women win guarantee over female only public lavatories - the Times

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chilling19 · 31/10/2020 07:01

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www.thetimes.co.uk/article/7355c886-1aea-11eb-8493-5b46eb56a071?shareToken=4752a364029a4a557a2ba26a99d985d4

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Facefullofcake · 03/11/2020 02:59

In mid October, Barbie was remanded in a women's prison in Limerick. I'm not sure whether that is continuing / whether she is in isolation etc. @DidoLamenting

Facefullofcake · 03/11/2020 03:00

*whether barbie is in isolation - the 'she' was unintentional

Facefullofcake · 03/11/2020 03:09

Sorry, I was trying to be tongue in cheek with the birthing parent comment.

I should have said the performance ive read about where Bowery (as himself) simulated giving birth to Nicola Bateman. The sausages and umbilical cord chewing is what I'm scared of.

It's described under performance art on his wiki, in case anyone's wondering what on earth I'm rambling about.

It is late Grin

NiceGerbil · 03/11/2020 03:09

Facefull the link I posted is aok honest.

Facefullofcake · 03/11/2020 03:13

[quote DidoLamenting]The Leigh Bowery "birthing" thing is explained here.

www.theguardian.com/artanddesign/2018/aug/13/sex-sin-and-sausages-the-debauched-brilliance-of-leigh-bowery

www.theguardian.com/theobserver/2002/jul/21/features.review27[/quote]
Thank you Smile

there's a lot to digest from the first article at least...

Facefullofcake · 03/11/2020 03:19

I clicked the link, @NiceGerbil - thank you for the reassurance.
It did make me laugh, but his balaclava face is soooooo unsettling- I guess that's the point though!

BettyFilous · 03/11/2020 06:22

jj has also failed to address the issues of dignity and privacy for women on this thread. Including those of a religion that are then excluded. Although there has been posters who have reminded us that these women should sort their shit out and stop belonging to that religion. (Hint: there is probably a larger proportion of these women than we think that cannot just magically leave these religions.)

By jj’s own logic, there’s nothing stopping TW from choosing to stop manifesting their belief that you can be born in the wrong body, that gender is a real thing (not socially constructed) and that you can change sex and reverting to male presentation, names and socialisation so they can safely use the men’s facilities*. See, two can play that game.

  • Not that there’s been evidence presented that this isn’t the case already.
Winesalot · 03/11/2020 08:01

Just saw NotBadConsidering posted this link on another thread. (Thanks NotBadConsidering). Maybe it will be useful for those posters who think all is ok in Ireland and Argentina.

Or maybe those posters will hand wave it away as with anything that doesn’t fit their cause.

www.womenarehuman.com/transgender-detainee-who-impregnated-fellow-inmate-is-released-from-prison-to-prevent-further-incident/

Sexnotgender · 03/11/2020 08:46

[quote Winesalot]Just saw NotBadConsidering posted this link on another thread. (Thanks NotBadConsidering). Maybe it will be useful for those posters who think all is ok in Ireland and Argentina.

Or maybe those posters will hand wave it away as with anything that doesn’t fit their cause.

www.womenarehuman.com/transgender-detainee-who-impregnated-fellow-inmate-is-released-from-prison-to-prevent-further-incident/[/quote]
I’m sure there will be some reason this is dismissed as absolutely fine. No evidence is ever enough.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/11/2020 09:56

A review is announced with Lord Jenrick saying "we have listened to women" and the response to that here is 15 pages of gaslighting about how illegal, awful, unsupported, unpopular and expensive female only toilets are.

Just read through and that's an accurate summary.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/11/2020 10:01

Still waiting for that evidence that some males who identify as women are less dangerous than other males.

You'll be waiting a while.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/11/2020 10:04

Transwomen are members of the group which commit 98% of all sexual assaults so unless you have evidence to exclude them I believe the evidence already exists that as males they are a danger to women.

Exactly. And that's without considering other harms like sexual harassment and allowing males to display their dominance over women by violating their boundaries, and riding roughshod over their privacy and dignity. The misogyny is baked in.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 03/11/2020 10:08

Told you it's a dead cert.

Well calledWineThanks

Datun · 03/11/2020 10:17

@Ereshkigalangcleg

A review is announced with Lord Jenrick saying "we have listened to women" and the response to that here is 15 pages of gaslighting about how illegal, awful, unsupported, unpopular and expensive female only toilets are.

Just read through and that's an accurate summary.

...and will destroy the tourist industry. Don't forget that.

Snort.

Sexnotgender · 03/11/2020 10:30

Ooh, us nasty women with boundaries are destroying the tourist industry?!

But I thought we were a powerless minority? This is all so confusing for my delicate lady brain.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/11/2020 10:32

and will destroy the tourist industry. Don't forget that.

Having dipped into the thread re loo on Californian road trip with a DD, I'd imagine a lot of tourists - often families and very often older people - would be absolutely delighted to be assured of a mix of single sex and properly designed any sex loos.

chilling19 · 03/11/2020 11:17

Why are we talking about the tourist industry? Have I missed something?

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persistentwoman · 03/11/2020 11:40

Because Chilling, the 50 GC women in the world on FWR are single handedly responsible for the collapse of the tourist industry, the pandemic, Trump and every single right wing politician in the world. And men self identifying as women have been sharing women's toilets for centuries and none of us have ever noticed.

It's amazing what women are responsible for when saying no to men determined to share spaces where women and girls are vulnerable. Quite an "education" this thread has been Grin

chilling19 · 03/11/2020 11:47

Oh I see. Everything is all so obviously our fault. 🙄

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persistentwoman · 03/11/2020 11:51

Yup. As soon as women say no to men - everything's our fault. Uppity women not knowing our place.

HecatesCats · 03/11/2020 11:53

I believe we're also going to be responsible for driving away the Tech & Fashion industries from these shores.

jj1968 · 03/11/2020 12:05

@DidoLamenting

I don't think I've ever seen anyone saying single sex toilets based on birth sex are bad for women (my own fairly short term experience excepted)

Because of how they would have to be policed. If you read that autostraddle piece there's lots of women in the comments talking about pushing their chests out and trying to look feminine when using women's toilets because they are worried about being accused of being men. Basically any woman who doesn't immediately pass as a women to every single person all of the time could face harassment and if toilet access was regulated by statute potentially arrest, or being thrown out.

But also a lot of people especially in the states saw bathroom bills as a canary in a coalmine. Let's face it, it's likely to be quite a right ring government that would impose laws like that, and if they get away with that then what's next? It's not something that's likely to be good for women.

Also it would almost certainly reduce toilet provision. Why would a business provide toilets if they were at risk of being sued/prosecuted if someone with the wrong genitals were to use them. Who needs that hassle when trying to run a business? So lot of toilets in shops and other places would be likely to go.

Datun · 03/11/2020 12:08

Indeed, upholding the current protocols for single sex facilities, means that this country will become a 'global pariah'.

No trans person, or their family or friends would ever visit.

Half the fashion industry, entertainment business, and technical profession would all leave their jobs and relocate to another country. And it's almost too difficult to imagine the catastrophic repercussions of the government's 'guaranteed access to female-only lavatories in public buildings'.

Ladies loos - the most potent superpower on Earth. 💪💪💪

As I said. It can't even be dignified with universally understood words like hyperbole and gaslighting. It's just a random string of nonsense bollocks.

TheWordWomanIsTaken · 03/11/2020 12:10

PearPickingPorky
What are "gender non-conforming women", jj?

Women who do not conform to the socially expected appearance of those born female for the purpose of this argument given it is based on how people look

So gender is nothing but stereotypes then? Glad you finally admit it. But even if you and I both wore jeans and a white T-shirt, I bet you plenty that EVERY SINGLE WOMAN would still know that I am a woman.

Your entitlement to our spaces and your arrogance about it shines through. And that is exactly why you should not be in our spaces.

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