@ChloeHouston79, you have absolutely no need to clarify your meaning with the women here, certainly not me. You did a brave thing and I am sure all of us on this thread are grateful to you for standing up on this issue, particularly when it’s clear that so many others see the awfulness of what’s happening but are keeping their heads down.
My comment was born out of frustration with the BBC for their relentless crapness on this issue. They highlighted that bit of your commentary because that’s the only bit that makes you valid in their eyes.
It’s a sign of the rightthink we are all required to demonstrate that we have to be ever so accommodating and apologetic before we may take the huge risk of saying ‘it’s not ok to harrass and abuse a woman for her ideas’
Thank you again chloe. And bon courage to you all in academia.