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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Grace Petrie on London protests

315 replies

MillyTheKid · 09/07/2018 18:10

From the folk singer and political activist's Twitter feed:

Here’s what I want to know. I’m a butch lesbian. How come NO TRANS PEOPLE EVER have:
-tried to convince me I’m trans
-tried to stop me using “lesbian”
-interrogated me about whether I will have sex with trans women
-erased me in literally any possible way

And yet, conversely, transphobic feminists have repeatedly:
-tried to stop me using queer to describe myself
-interrogated me about who I’m willing to have sex with
-told me the answer makes me “not a lesbian”
-erased my voice repeatedly in their claim to speak for lesbians

I’m not exaggerating even a tiny bit when I say that the level of harassment I have had simply for opposing TERFs is incomparably more than all the homophobia I’ve experienced in my life. So - you’ll forgive me if I find the “defending lesbians” rhetoric a bit hard to swallow

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SlothSlothSloth · 09/07/2018 21:55

Also, she claims to be woke and inclusive but would she fuck as like go out with or sleep with a fully intact trans woman. No she wouldn't and nor would all the other conveniently coupled up lesbians (to biological females of course) who state that trans women are our sisters. So hypocritical.

This would only be hypocritical if she was urging other lesbians to have sex with trans women...

BabyItsAWildWorld · 09/07/2018 22:00

How can she be a lesbian and never have stated her sexual preference?
Surely we could) would presume it's other women?

It feels like the lesbian community are really split on this issue.

Racecardriver · 09/07/2018 22:04

Well from a psychological view point it makes perfect sense. Intuitively Pro art experiences create a far greater impression than secondary experiences. So if you are in the thick of it and you are only being hassled by the gethelout people then it's quite natural to find it hard to bekuevr that trabsacticists could be the problem. But if you observing though media for example you end up with a very different impression because you have no pro ary experiences to draw on.

SlothSlothSloth · 09/07/2018 22:08

Yes racecardriver i think this is a good point. Most of the examples I see of trans people (and others) implying biological sex is irrelevant to sexual orientation are online. Lots of tumblr and Twitter. How far this is carried over into real life is hard to know

BertrandRussell · 09/07/2018 22:16

I think of all the complex cognitive dissonances this issue throws up for me, the idea of two people with penises having anal sex and calling themselves lesbians is the most complex. But this obviously shows that I am obsessed with genitals....

PeakPants · 09/07/2018 22:19

This would only be hypocritical if she was urging other lesbians to have sex with trans women...

Well, indirectly she is doing that by dismissing the concerns of lesbians who are complaining about this. If she thinks that women can have penises and that there is no difference between a trans woman and a natal woman, she is a hypocrite.

NotTerfNorCis · 09/07/2018 22:26

-interrogated me about who I’m willing to have sex with
-told me the answer makes me “not a lesbian”

Okay is she bisexual? Confused.

SPOFS · 09/07/2018 22:29

The fact is, if this singer came out in support of TERFs, she would lose her career. She would be no-platformed, have her social media flooded with hate, and so forth. Women like her cannot be honest about the situation. Sad

SlothSlothSloth · 09/07/2018 22:31

If she thinks that women can have penises and that there is no difference between a trans woman and a natal woman, she is a hypocrite.

Well I doubt she does think that, but wants to be nice. And also (quite naturally) wants to support the group that hasn’t harassed her as opposed to the group that has.

I think the leaflets that the group at pride handed out did not help matters and have probably tipped her and others like her over the edge. Very, very alienating to most not already deeply invested in GC thought.

AndhowcouldIeverrefuse · 09/07/2018 22:36

I have no idea who this person is. So she has been harassed by feminists? Has she reported it to the police? Hmm

PeakPants · 09/07/2018 22:38

Well I doubt she does think that, but wants to be nice. And also (quite naturally) wants to support the group that hasn’t harassed her as opposed to the group that has.

Wanting to be nice is still her being a hypocrite. She is invalidating some quite legitimate concerns and writing them off as bigotry pure and simple.

OrchidInTheSun · 09/07/2018 22:38

Harassed? Or pointed out that someone with a penis isn't a lesbian? There's a difference

OrchidInTheSun · 09/07/2018 22:39

Actually the leaflets are very eye opening to those not deeply involved in sole Pomo identity politics. My Facebook time,one has been ab absolute revelation

littlbrowndog · 09/07/2018 22:46

Never heard of her

She should just crack o; wit her songs and being afraid in case she don’t confirm

LassWiADelicateAir · 10/07/2018 00:14

I have no idea who this person is

I had to Google her. I'm not weighing in on the lesbian/pride/trans/whatever bit but she makes my teeth itch.

She exemplifies exactly why I am now firmly divorced from left wing politics and the Labour party.

She has very little musical talent. She can strum along 3 basic chords and is labouring under the delusion that singing in a working class , non- metropolitan accent will disguise the fact she has an uninteresting and forgettable voice.

Lots of tedious , unoriginal "poltical protest" songs which because because of her lack of talent all sound exactly the same.

Lots of whinging and whining and self-congratulatory guff on Twitter.

She is also one of the many, deeply unoriginal and deeply unfunny performers on The Now Show.

Lots and lots of how awful the Tories are and I just think , yes well they might be but things would be a whole lot worse if people like her were in charge.

MillyTheKid · 10/07/2018 00:31

She can strum along 3 basic chords

Never did Status Quo any harm Smile

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MistOnTheWater · 10/07/2018 00:49

I have no idea who this person is and can't be arsed to find out. I'll just take Lass's word for it Grin

ElenOfTheWays · 10/07/2018 00:53

Someone's tipped her off.

mobile.twitter.com/gracepetrie/status/1016456265512509441

Oooh yer all terrible, you are!

LeiaTheSlaya · 10/07/2018 01:02

Maybe Gracie would like to comment on the doxxing going on by her trans 'siblings' of the lesbians who were part of the protest. Or is that something else Gracie never sees?

Hi Gracie!

LassWiADelicateAir · 10/07/2018 01:07

On reflection "3 basic chords" is being kind to her. Her style of playing is just generic strumming.

FloralBunting · 10/07/2018 01:22

I love it. Lass is disparaging about Grace's musical ability.
It is pointed out that Grace has seen the thread.
Lass, with refined class, doubles down on the opinion because she knows Grace is now watching.
Reminds me of my cat, judging me scornfully from the other side of the room, suddenly being gifted with speech and saying, "Yes? You expected compliments for that ensemble?"

Abouttoblow · 10/07/2018 01:28

Snappity you must be exhausted and have cramp in your fingers with them hovering over the keyboard , sitting waiting for a thread to start that will let you drop your little gems in. I admire your stamina.
That's 2 nights on the trot. Bravo

LeiaTheSlaya · 10/07/2018 01:32

Ooh, the mighty Robin Ince has declared on twitter that MNetters are

unutterably horrible people.

While admitting he has no actual clue what this is all about.

That's a smart move eh?

LeiaTheSlaya · 10/07/2018 01:35

This is quite entertaining actually - @Glinner has posted up links & riled Gracie up to the point she's told him to FUCK OFF. Grin

BettyDuMonde · 10/07/2018 02:10

I went off for a listen (I love women singer/songwriters) but I’m afraid I agree with lass.

Exposure to crap music needs an antidote, so here is the wonderful Amanda Shires covering Leonard Cohen’s ‘I’m Your Man’:

m.youtube.com/watch?v=ryHF7vwNsYQ