Except I haven't done that. The closest I have come is saying that someone isn't less of a lesbian for having sex with a non-transitioned woman.
Non transitioned woman - aka man with a penis who identifies as a woman.
This is where the transfer ideology is leading everyone.
In an effort to be inclusive, people, including lesbians, are unable to now comprehensively define the word lesbian.
Of course it's going to cause ructions.
If you are in a position where you can call men, women, and it doesn't affect your life, you might well go ahead and do it. Not even necessarily because you believe it, but because why not?
If you're in a position where you can't, you won't.
As changing the meaning of man, woman, boy, girl, lesbian, homosexual, mother, father, etc, has an affect on a great number of people, there are few people who don't have skin in the game.
Women are not pushing this. Women are not benefiting from this.
Do not expect women to comply. (Some, most, all or a few.)
Furthermore, yes of course words on a screen can be hurtful. But on mumsnet, we do not threaten to rape people, we don't dox them and personal attacks are deleted.
Robust rebuttal, with opinions, is not the same as bomb threats and beatings.
And women (and lesbians) are being erased. As evidenced by these very threads. No one can define the word woman any more!
It's the foundation of the gender critical objection.