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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

If you could choose... would you rather have been born male?

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wellwisher · 19/09/2011 14:13

I don't post in this section much, but this is inspired by the "Do you remember a specific moment where you realised that being female put you at a disadvantage?" thread.

I have become more feminist/aware of the disadvantages of being female as I've got older. The last few years, I've realised that if I could choose, I'd rather be male. I'm at an age where I'm starting to lose my looks and panic about my biological clock, and I resent that my male friends don't have these worries yet. Almost all my female friends have settled down and started to have children, often making major compromises to do so. Almost all my male friends are still single and enjoying their freedom. It feels so unfair! It's more than that though: women have so much additional CRAP to deal with - prejudice, misogyny, objectification, being punished by society for getting older/not being conventionally pretty, feeling physically vulnerable... honestly, if I could go back to the moment of my conception, wave a magic wand and be created male instead of female, I would do it in a snap. Yet, none of my female friends feel the same way - even though most of them are relatively feminist in their views.

Maybe I just feel like this because I don't have children. Maybe it's just me, am generally a bit gloomy at the moment... but I thought it could be an interesting discussion. What would you choose? Try to set aside any feelings associated with having had babies, as this clearly adds a huge emotional aspect to the issue. I hope that any future children of mine will be boys. I really feel I wouldn't wish being born female on anyone - and I'm aware of how easy women in the UK have it compared to most of the rest of the world.

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AnyFucker · 20/09/2011 19:58

wobbly

CrosswordAddict · 20/09/2011 19:59

What? And miss the joy of a twin Caesarean section? Wink

wellwisher · 21/09/2011 08:42

Thanks moonferret. Hmm, well then I can't really see why it would be so bad to have a penis. They are completely ridiculous-looking, but they're out of sight most of the time and more convenient all round than the alternative, especially for those of us who enjoy long country walks Grin

No worries about the baby thing, everyone - I am surrounded by them in real life and I don't even have a boyfriend at the moment! and really I would be happy to wait a few years if biology permitted it - just worried about missing the boat completely... I hate that feeling of time running out.

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PrideOfChanur · 21/09/2011 13:17

I was thinking about this thread and remembered this song by Jamie Anderson - this isn't quite the version I was expecting but it made me smile....

(I was going to apologise for deviation from serious discussion,but after AF's Wobbly Buttocks support group,and MF's useful insights into male anatomy and underwear probably don't need to Smile )

AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 13:43

Do you want to support my WBSG, POC ?

membership is free for a limited period

I am currently thinking about the Initiation Process, though

PrideOfChanur · 21/09/2011 14:45

Free membership is always tempting,AF......though my buttocks are in fairly good shape at the moment

Tell you what,let me know when you've decided on the Initiation Process,yes?

AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 15:03

Ah, be gone with ya

You firm-buttocked slip of a wooooman, ya

Only ladies with buttocks of the loose variety are welcome

I think the initiation process (and entry standard) has to be that you can rotate each buttock the opposite way at the same time

Like those horrid nipple tassle thingies, but with the arse cheeks

Whaddaya think ?

AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 15:04

I deserve to be shot for writing this on the Feminism/WR board. Grin

PrideOfChanur · 21/09/2011 15:21

Yep,whatever are you thinking of??

AnyFucker · 21/09/2011 15:53

I like to do a bit of derailing myself, on occasion

Own medicine 'n' all that

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