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Wtf is wrong with me.. photo included TMI

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deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 15:58

Woke up yesterday to a nawing pain where my knickers sit on my right leg. Thought oh I'm just getting fat and need bigger knickers.

Today I woke up feeling like shit. I can barely move my leg. It's agongy I cannot walk to see this monsteristy. There is a larged raised redness around it. I cannot get to the GP i have a meeting in the morning I cannot miss.
I feel really shit, keep getting cold as well. I thought infected hair folicie but it looks worse. Would show the large red patch around it but I'm embarrassed enough showing this. Please help 😭

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PrettyLittleRose · 17/09/2026 21:05

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Oh wow, so it was quite serious then?! Thank goodness you didn't listen to the ludicrous 'leave it, or put a hot flannel on it' and 'it's a boil just pop it!' posters. Clearly some people don't know what the hell they are on about.

So pleased you've got it dealt with! Flowers Hope you're out of pain soon. xx

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:07

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 21:05

Read the OP updates. She's already there.

I don't have time

PrettyLittleRose · 17/09/2026 21:09

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 20:53

Well this aged like milk...

I know right @Confessionsofa40yrold should switch names with the OP as SHE is the one who should be @deadembarrased 😆

PrettyLittleRose · 17/09/2026 21:10

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:07

I don't have time

But you have time to be posting on here. It would take 30 seconds to whizz through the OP's posts. Not even that long probably!

RampantIvy · 17/09/2026 21:11

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:07

I don't have time

Select See All in the OP. It's quicker than typing out nonsense.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 21:13

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:07

I don't have time

There's a link on the OP's first post "see all" that shows you just the OP's updates without needing to scroll past everyone else's.

Sadwork · 17/09/2026 21:14

Thank fuck you didn't listen to medic @Confessionsofa40yrold .

I hope you're better asap @deadembarrased . Hope ex is feeling embarrassed. Although he probably won't be the cunt.

EasternStandard · 17/09/2026 21:16

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Going probably did save your life. Well done, tg you made it there.

SeptemberRains · 17/09/2026 21:25

I’m glad you ignored @Confessionsofa40yrold who doesn’t know whether she’s a cleaner or a medical professional @deadembarrased
Hope you feel much better soon

Tillow4ever · 17/09/2026 21:25

So glad to read your update and hope you start to feel better soon!

Daisymail · 17/09/2026 21:28

Good to hear you are in the right place and receiving treatment.

NotAtMyAge · 17/09/2026 21:29

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

So glad you've been seen, diagnosed and put on the proper treatment, OP. Cellulitis can spread so quickly once it takes hold, as I know from bitter experience. Now wishing you all the very best for your recovery. Flowers

thegrumblingkitten · 17/09/2026 21:36

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

You are wrong and clearly shouldn't be giving medical advice. OP is on IV antibiotics and will likely be admitted as it looks suspiciously similar to what happened to a loved one of mine.

Fatiguedwithlife · 17/09/2026 21:39

Glad you went OP and that you’re getting treatment. The feeling unwell and spreading redness were the sepsis signs so you may well have had your life saved.

MyEasterBonnet · 17/09/2026 21:42

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

Do you not feel awful that you could have given devastating advice here? It’s one thing being a troll and talking shite and lying, but handing out advice that could kill someone is something else.

NotAtMyAge · 17/09/2026 21:44

Fatiguedwithlife · 17/09/2026 21:39

Glad you went OP and that you’re getting treatment. The feeling unwell and spreading redness were the sepsis signs so you may well have had your life saved.

Not necessarily sepsis. I had severe cellulitis, with exactly the same spreading redness and an extremely high temperature and needed 16 days of iv antibiotics. No mention of sepsis.

PyongyangKipperbang · 17/09/2026 21:50

I sincerely hope you called your ex a cunt when you updated him.

Hope you feel better soon x

TR0LLING · 17/09/2026 21:51

Glad you are getting treatment OP and well done for listening to the good advice here. Mumsnet at its best.

With a few plonkers whose names we won’t mention, who hopefully will learn their lesson and NEVER AGSIN dissuade another poster from seeking medical advice.

VividDeer · 17/09/2026 21:51

Get well soon op. The appointment can be rescheduled, this can't. Try and get some rest if possible. I hope they found you a bed

Letterleaf · 17/09/2026 21:52

@Confessionsofa40yrold i hope you reflect on what you wrote tonight. You’re a cleaner who pretended to be a medic to tell someone they’d be wasting NHS time if they went to hospital. It turns out if they didn’t go, they could have died. And her children would have been without a mother. You should be ashamed of yourself. Completely and utterly ashamed.

Change2banon · 17/09/2026 21:53

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:07

I don't have time

Well then don’t bother posting, save yourself even more time.

Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 21:54

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 20:33

What’s your profession? Stalker?

Some people must spend hours on here checking out that kind of background.

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 22:01

PrettyLittleRose · 17/09/2026 21:10

But you have time to be posting on here. It would take 30 seconds to whizz through the OP's posts. Not even that long probably!

Please bore off and stop wasting your time telling other people what to do.

AmyDudley · 17/09/2026 22:01

Calliopespa · 17/09/2026 21:54

Some people must spend hours on here checking out that kind of background.

They must be pig shit thick then because it took me about 2 seconds

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 22:02

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