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Wtf is wrong with me.. photo included TMI

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deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 15:58

Woke up yesterday to a nawing pain where my knickers sit on my right leg. Thought oh I'm just getting fat and need bigger knickers.

Today I woke up feeling like shit. I can barely move my leg. It's agongy I cannot walk to see this monsteristy. There is a larged raised redness around it. I cannot get to the GP i have a meeting in the morning I cannot miss.
I feel really shit, keep getting cold as well. I thought infected hair folicie but it looks worse. Would show the large red patch around it but I'm embarrassed enough showing this. Please help 😭

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CaseClosedWineOpened · 17/09/2026 20:41

A bit late to the party here, and hope you are being treated OP!

I had an abscess in the exact same spot and had to have it drained under general anaesthetic as by the time I went to urgent care it was too late to treat. I was able to walk out the same day, but then had to get the hole it left behind (gross!) repacked with fresh dressing every few days while it healed.

Hopefully OP you have got treatment quicker than I did and the antibiotics will do the trick!

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

OP posts:
Theringcycle · 17/09/2026 20:42

Hope you’re doing ok OP. I had one of these recently and it was an abscess. I raised an online econsult with my GP as I wasn’t sure whether to go to urgent care and they asked me to come in. They confirmed it was an abscess and started antibiotics but said that if I felt worse to go to a&e for it to be drained. The antibiotics did their trick within a day or so and then it burst and I went back to the nurse who gave me a gel to put on and some dressings. It all healed up pretty quickly - hope yours does the same.

CaseClosedWineOpened · 17/09/2026 20:43

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Glad you are being treated! Get well soon ❤️‍🩹

Theringcycle · 17/09/2026 20:43

Glad you’re getting it treated OP. Hopefully you’ll start to feel a bit better soon.

SpiritedFlame · 17/09/2026 20:45

So glad you went in OP. Get well soon and I'm so sorry about the timing!

Woodfiresareamazing2 · 17/09/2026 20:47

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Thank goodness you went when you did. Cellulitis can quickly turn into sepsis, which is a life-threatening condition.
Hope you're feeling much better soon 💐

Laura95167 · 17/09/2026 20:48

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

So glad youre going to be OK

Bitsostuff · 17/09/2026 20:48

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Oh dear God, poor you! Thank God you sought medical attention when you did.

I waste far too much time debating pointless stuff on mumsnet, it's good to see a theead that helps someone.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 20:51

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 20:33

What’s your profession? Stalker?

Whilst trollhunting isn't allowed, you can't be surprised if people use Advanced Search, or simply their own memories of your previous posts, to recognise inconsistencies in what you say about yourself.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 20:53

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

Well this aged like milk...

Itsthewoluff · 17/09/2026 20:54

Oh thank God you actually listened!

Hope you are better quickly.

Bobbybobbins · 17/09/2026 20:54

Well done OP and everyone who gave good advice. Hope you feel better soon.

Scamworried · 17/09/2026 20:54

@deadembarrased

Glad you went to hospital

Hope the children dad has stepped up

Get well soon

ratatouillemousesqueak · 17/09/2026 20:59

Thank goodness you went! Get well soon!

JasmineMac · 17/09/2026 21:00

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

Glad to hear you're having treatment.
Keep an eye on the redness, in case it darkens/blackens. I had a family member with suspected cellulitis, however it turned out to be necrotising fasciitis. Hopefully it's not that, it IS rare, but still worth being aware of the condition.

skeletonbones · 17/09/2026 21:00

Ah so glad you have been seen. I had a breast abcess a few years ago and the palm sized red area rang a bell, was going to say you must go to A and E just like everyone else did.I also wanted to say what an absolute unselfless warrior you are to be trying to soldier on to make your sons autism assessment, I really hope it can be resorted for you. Feel better soon!

Comtesse · 17/09/2026 21:00

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

Just as well OP didn’t listen to this plonker….

PrettyLittleRose · 17/09/2026 21:02

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

Ridiculous post. Behave!

WhatK8DidNext · 17/09/2026 21:03

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 20:41

Just up at a&e been put on iv antibiotics. Infected abcess and cellitius. 😫 redness grew twice the size from when I drew around. Thank you for telling me to go, saved my life more than likely!

I’m only just come to this thread and I’m so relived to read you are in hospital getting treated!

I am also a parent to two disabled kids and I do completely understand waiting for those vital appointments…. But you need to be alive to do them and you being well is much more important to your kids. You can’t help being ill and you won’t be the first person to miss this appointment, they will have a process for it and will get you booked back in.

Good luck x

nocoolnamesleft · 17/09/2026 21:03

Thank fuck you're getting treated. I was reading this thread with rising dread. And your ex is a pillock. With regards to the missed appointment about the autism, is that with community paeds? Because if so they will all have done acute work in the past, and know not to fuck with sepsis, so I'm sure this will be taken as a good reason to need to rearrange.

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:03

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 16:18

No. Im avoiding hospital as I know i will miss the meeting its for my sons autism assessment for the parental interview.
Im not allowed to do it via phone and its to late to post phone. I need to be at that meeting. Also I have two disabled children I can't just leave them.

God, this is just awful. Please get someone to help you and get to A&E.

Sweetandnice · 17/09/2026 21:03

deadembarrased · 17/09/2026 15:58

Woke up yesterday to a nawing pain where my knickers sit on my right leg. Thought oh I'm just getting fat and need bigger knickers.

Today I woke up feeling like shit. I can barely move my leg. It's agongy I cannot walk to see this monsteristy. There is a larged raised redness around it. I cannot get to the GP i have a meeting in the morning I cannot miss.
I feel really shit, keep getting cold as well. I thought infected hair folicie but it looks worse. Would show the large red patch around it but I'm embarrassed enough showing this. Please help 😭

I had this few months ago it like a boil .I had it on the side of my bum cheek omg it was so painful I couldn't sit or stand few days later my whole leg was hurting.
I called the doctors the gave me antibiotics .
After nearly a week loads of pus came out of it .

nocoolnamesleft · 17/09/2026 21:05

Confessionsofa40yrold · 17/09/2026 19:59

Jesus. No wonder the NHS is on its knees with this lot having a panic.
Looks like a boil. Give it a good squeeze and see what happens. Dab a dose of salt water on it and if it’s no better in a day or two then make an appointment.

You really shouldn't be giving advice on medical threads if that is the level of your medical knowledge.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 17/09/2026 21:05

MintyBadger1975 · 17/09/2026 21:03

God, this is just awful. Please get someone to help you and get to A&E.

Read the OP updates. She's already there.

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