TheFirstOHN - I agree having lots to lose makes it harder to notice a significant amount of weight loss, which a stone would be!
I have a weight tracking app that can apparently work out your ideal weight, and my ideal weight is apparently 8 stone 9 or something. That is just an unrealistic goal for me. I cannot see me ever getting down to that.
I say I want to get to 10 stone but tbh, I am pretty flexible on that. If I could be a 10/12 I would be happy, regardless of weight.
Even in my early twenties when I was slim and a size 10 - 12 I was always between 10-11 stone....so have always been heavier than I looked.
I am 5ft 1 (ish) and 17 stone, and am a size 18-20 depending on the shop. Usually a 20 on the bottom and an 18 on top, even though I have a large bust.
I have a pacer app on my phone which I link to MFP for "exercise" calories, although I tend to only try and eat back half of my exercise calories, if any.
I am currently aiming for 1770 calories a day basic. That is to be losing 0.5 lb a week. I did not want to go to drastic as I thought I would struggle with anything less and set myself up to fail.