If it was 'all these weight loss jobs are a bad move' it's still there. Over 700 posts in less than 24 hours.
I had a lunch yesterday with some work colleagues. One of them now works in a different team so we don't see each other so often. I will say now that they are much closer friends than me and I was invited by the colleague who I sit next to who is probably the centre of the group.
The person from the different team arrived where we were meeting and said hi to me and then said 'well you are fading away' which everyone heard. It was a bit awkward so I just smiled and said well not really. Someone else said 'oh yes we know' in a quite dismissive tone - not sure if it was dismissive of the topic or being a bit negative about my weight loss. I also felt like perhaps they have been talking about me amongst themselves.
I am BMI 24.6 down from about 30-31. Hardly fading away but I guess perhaps the weight loss is showing in my face now and am over 50 so possibly starting to look older as it slims. Anyway I then had to have lunch with them. I was the only one who had salad instead of chips with their meal but I cleared my plate and stole a few chips off someone else's when offered.
The person who said it is normally lovely, is a bit overweight herself and I know is quite sensitive about it. But I felt really awkward at her comment about fading away. It is starting to get me thinking about where I should be aiming for weight wise and if my goal to lose another 8lbs is too much.