They say if you relocate somewhere you really need to give yourself at least two years to adjust and settle. And that's just for us normal folk relocating to a new town in the same country. Never mind relocating to the otherside of the Atlantic and into the RF!
I think part of the problem is it feels MM never really gave being in the UK/RF a chance to work. I think she (and H) expected far too much and far too soon and have buggered off at the first sign of trouble. If they had just ignored the press, got their head down with their duties etc for a few years then I'm sure it could have settled, respect is then earned and then they could have started looking at new initiatives and MM would have been respected as a Royal in her own right the same way Kate is now, and that's what, after 10+ years of being with William?
They just seem to have no patience at all.